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2016-07-11 07:09:41 Post No. 17345845
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2016-07-11 07:09:41
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Hi, /adv/. I've been dating a girl for nearly a year now, and she truly and honestly wants to spend the rest of her life with me, but I just don't want to date her. The problem is, if I stop dating her, I fully believe she might try to commit suicide.
As for why I don't want to date her, she's ready for commitment and I am not. Also, maybe this is shallow, but I'm not that physically and emotionally attracted to her. I feel like she's alright, but I can do better in a lot of ways.
When we first started dating, I told her I loved her when I didn't, and that we could get married in a few years because she wanted to, when I didn't mean either of those things. I realize I fucked up here. My only explanation there was that I hadn't dated anyone since high school (22 here) and got rejected by every girl I asked out in college and was desperate to have a gf, regardless of what she said. Normally, I would tell her that I was caught up in the moment and that it was wrong of me to say that. However, I tried to break it off once and she became depressed as all fuck, and talked a lot about not having a reason to go on anymore. We got back together because I wanted to make her happy and thought I could learn to be happy with her. I just don't want to be with her, though.
This girl has been through a lot of physical and sexual abuse from other boyfriends, and has tried to kill herself before. I don't want to cause her death. What should I do?
