I suppose I'm not gonna find a girlfriend or hook up with a random girls so I've decided to find an escort lose my v-card with one.
Anyone have good advice for precautions I need to take if I'm going to fuck an escort?
>>17345143
If you're going the escort route, you're gonna want to stay away from sites like Craigslist, and the like. Public sites like that, are usually a big no-no.
>>17345151
What websites would you recommend?
>>17345143
This is a work safe board, you ignorant child.
Advice? Stop being so fat, ugly and pathetic you have to pay a woman to touch you.
Saying you lost your virginity because you fucked a hooker is like saying you're an expert sniper because you play a lot of Battlefield.
Fucking an escort is just making a business transaction to masturbate.
>>17345163
Why wouldn't it count? Is it pathetic? Sure, but it's still losing your virginity. I still think OP shouldn't do it, but I am not following your logic. Sex is sex.
>>17345166
No woman is interested in me.
I've talked to various women and gone to several bars and clubs.
The most I've ever gotten is quick kiss (more like a peck) initiated by a stripper.
I just can't. I'm not attractive.
>>17345152
You're gonna have to go on another board for that one brother.
>>17345177
Well, whatever your reason is, it doesn't matter. What matters is that you want to get your dick wet. Virgin or not.
Wear a condom, and don't skimp. If you have to save up, do it.
>>17345191
Ok, got it.
But I'm wondering about not getting rekt by the police, or getting led into a trap.
Use theeroticreview.com to find one that isn't a cop or a rip-off. You don't have to create an account to read the important part of the reviews.
>>17345383
What are signs of a cop?
How much SHOULD i be paying for an escort?
>>17345395
Honestly anon I wouldn't do it. Fucking an escort is a complete and total turnoff if you aren't into her and she's not into you.
Game takes some time, but if you can learn it you'll fuck the kind of girls you've always wanted.
Here's what you need to do. Force yourself in a new social circle that you've never been in. This may mean joining a club, taking another job, whatever. In this social circle, start hanging out with the people there regularly. This is the start of learning game.
Women are wholly social creatures. All the sexy ones thrive off of social settings and get everything they want from them. Men who can wade successfully in social settings will get laid. In order to wade though these you must be willing to suffer some humiliation and some suffering. The first time you join one of these circles you're going to be put on the bottom rung. You don't know anything about social dynamics, because they are all learned in the field. You must trudge on through the many rejections and the alphas making you the butt of the jokes. This is how you learn what really works with women.
>>17345395
Choose one that has at least 5 good reviews on TER.
Only use outcall.
The Asian ones are usually $160 for a quicky. Typical big city escorts are $200 to $300.
I have found that as long as they have decent reviews on TER, and you can find their (non-blurry) pictures from the link from the review page on TER, you will be fine.
>>17345437
This is gonna be a lot harder for a guy who is already in his late 20s.
>>17345459
Let me go through all my girlfriends....
My age : her age
19 : 16
19 : 19
22 : 19
25 : 23
36 : 24
39 29
>>17345143
Hell, im guessing your age is getting up there to consider this option. How old are you?
Not judging but some people like yourself might need a sex life bump start and lets be honest life is pretty much pay to win anyway.
I live in a country where prostitution is legalized so its not really uncommon here for people to do this, but getting someone to admit it is a task.
The only real advice i could give you is ask the escort if she would do a nude photo shoot. These are completely legal and a real escort would have no issue with doing it. How ever a cop would straight out deny the request. If she is down with that then you can move the conversation along to the real reason.
Plus some make you pay for a extra called Multi shots. This means you can come as many times as you want. As a virgin a strongly recommend taking this option.
Plus use a condom
>>17345459
Actually it isn't. Men aren't like women. The older you are the more value you bring to the table. You spend wayyy less money knowing game than on some floozy you have for one night and you become shitloads more confident.
>>17345143
Use the erotic review, aim for 100$
Nearly guaranteed to not be a cop from that site, in order to test it try to kiss the girl with a quick peck on the lips, if she refuses just silently get up and walk out
Cops will always refuse to kiss, real escorts will always agree to it, this is what an old sage anon told me long ago
I totally sympathize with you man, I'm a virgin too and I want sex more than anything else in life, it really is the dream of my lifetime, its everything to me
Sometimes I just feel like saying "I give up, I can't do it" and just getting a hooker
I think if I get to the tail end of this year and I'm still a virgin that's what I'm gonna do
Dude unless you're terminal or autistic or have some fucked up problem you should probably wait. A girls gonna look at you alot weirder if you tell her you had to pay someone the first time you had sex as opposed to being a virgin.
>>17345541
That shit is true. Everything a guy looks for gets worse with time and everything a woman looks for gets better. Guys look at beauty and women look for personality traits that men tend to have an abundance of as they get older. If you're a guy you're game should get better as you get older. If it's not you're fucking up.
>>17345539
see>>17345459
Specifically, 27.
>>17345555
Checkem
>>17345559
>Specifically, 27
Either go for it or tell people that your waiting for marriage. But your running out of time to deside.
>>17345546
This. Also if you start fucking prostitutes your going to have a pretty fucked up sex life and wish you hadn't.
>>17345620
Some sex life is better than no sex life.
Though money on prostitutes is better spent on plastic surgery for longer tern benefits.
>>17345437
>>17345541
>>17345546
>>17345620
/r9k/ here stop blowing smoke up the kid's ass. Some people are just unattractive due to ugliness or autism or whatever. Women are really fucking entitled these days and there are a lot of ripped immigrants to be competing with these days as well.
Lmao @ the guy telling him that being older puts him at an advantage. 27 year old virgin? Lmao.
Fucking a hooker will likely actually increase his chances of gettign a gf because it will help his anxiety around women. In any case YOLO there's no point in sitting around waiting. Fucking normies acting like the wizard tales aren't true.
At 18 I realized I was a beta loser, I kept thinking that maybe I should wait but I didn't and I'm glad I didn't because at 24 I still have never been laid for free. Some men will just never get laid, this isn't rocket sceicne they even made a movie about it, the 40 year old virgin.
Finally what annoys me most about the whole "don't fuck hookers mentality is that yet again it's making everything a man has to do into a stressful fucking competition. "you gotta get laid by this age and in this specific way unless you're a loser!" Guy just wants to get his dick wet not get points in a videogame.
>>17346330
Paying for sex and getting it aren't comparable in terms of what it does for your confidence. The best case scenario is that OP realizes that sex isn't that big a deal or not that hard. He's not going to magically learn how to fuck a girl properly from sticking it in a girl (who will never give honest feedback on how it feels to top it off) and whereas getting a girl yourself is an egoboost, paying for sex is at best neutral because you're a paying customer and at worst humiliating if you look down on yourself for it.
OP should do whatever he want but I don't think fucking a hooker will make a significant difference for his interaction with girls.
There's a lot of bad advice in this thread. I lost my v's to the dirtiest whore ever. That was 6 years ago and now I'm happily married with a kid (she's not a whore btw). It was the best decision of my life. My problem was that sex was a surreal thing that i was afraid of. After i fucked some Whores my fears dissolved and my life improved. People who say it's important who you lose your virginity to are pussies who put too much stock in other people's opinions. Other people are retards. You're a man in a shitty world, so take charge of your shitty life and tell everyone else to get fucked.
>>17346335
But my point is that some people can't get laid for free no matter how hard they try. And look at what this guy just said >>17346345
It can increase your confidence.
>>17346350
That I agree with, and even if it's technically possible I think investing endlessly in it isn't advisable either.
Also I didn't mean to say it was impossible for it to boost your self esteem, I kind of mentioned what that post said in the sense that OP could see that sex isn't a big deal if he's scared of it now. But it's no deus ex machina thing and I have also heard plenty of stories from men who enjoyed the sex but didn't find their experience that helpful in "the real world" because at the end of the day fucking a hooker is not at all a social interaction, like everything surrounding getting laid or starting a relationship otherwise.
If OP is crippled by the thought of fucking someone then sure it'll help him. If his confidence is below zero because no girls show interest in him, I doubt it. Is all I meant.
>OP can't get girls
>wants to buy sex because of it
>people tell him not to do it because it'll be harder to get girls
>>17345159
Some things you just can't change.
Why don't you just get a Tinder and try the shotgun approach.
You'll save a lot of money, get a lot of different pussy, and it's legal.
Upload a couple pics, swipe right 24/7, anytime you get matched with a girl you wouldn't mind sticking your dick in, hit her up. But, keep it light, keep it casual, and make sure she knows all you're trying to do is have a good single mingle, ya dig?
"What you up to tonight" "Plans this weekend" "Netflix and chill?" "Dtf?"
Seriously, it works.
>>17346519
Why is prostitution even illegal in America? Land of the free no?
>>17346599
Because we're winners. Winners don't need to pay hookers for sex. Winners can land a chick on their own merit. If losers have to result to paying for sex. they're failures. Stay failing, Europoors.
>>17346599
It's legal in some parts, and pretty much legal all over. It's treated kind of like marijuana here, most people don't care, and even caught red handed they'll turn a blind eye.
>mfw having loud party
>front door open, screen door shut
>rolling blunt in my lap at time
>police rolls up, knocks on screen door and then steps foot in the house
>looks dead at me, wrap in my hand, weed in tray on my lap
>says he's here on a noise complaint, and requests us to turn down our music for the night
>immediately comply, yes sir, thank you sir, no problem sir
>he goes back to the donut shop
>i smoke this L.
Why are you so worried about losing your virginity? This sounds awfully insecure.
Wouldn't the "I did it ! Finally!" Moment be a little more worth it if you actually gave it your all with a little patience instead of just throwing down a hundred or so dollars?
It just sounds like an empty lulzy experience and a waste of time.
>>17346634
Curiosity is a big factor
>>17346634
Because sex for the sake itself is said to feel so fucking good that its like nirvana tier, the absolute greatest thing in life, no equals, no rivals, nothing even comes close
This is WITHOUT a condom, I'm not OP but this is my life goal
The problem with having sex with a stranger when you're a virgin is, if it's a bad experience, you won't get a chance with her to try and have a better one.
The bad experience can lead to performance anxiety which will terrorize you for years to come.
I slept with the first slut that would have me when I was 17, and it sucked.
I had performance anxiety until my early 20's before I could finally get completely hard and fuck a girl, and it was after being with my current GF for a year.
