How is a man supposed to react upon learning his sister has gotten into porn?
>>17344760
Disgusted
>>17344760
If you come down hard on her and freak out she'll just cut you out of her life.
Make sure you are at least around so that when she DOES grow up and realize what a stupid mistake she's made you're around to catch her when she falls.
Don't support her decision but don't drive her away. She's your sister and if you love her you'll do the right thing.
Get her out of it by showing your 100% supportive of it.
Be all like, "wow, you're such a good actress, amazing scene yesterday", "have a good day at work *wink*, shit like that.
Imply you watch her videos, to sow your supportive of her decisions.
Also, actually watch them, sounds hot as fuck.
>>17344778
She's into black guys no way would I get off to that
With shame. Your family fucked up.
>>17344778
I came here to post this
I wonder if this is bait
>>17344760
You dont brag about your sister being a porn star without providing sauce.
>>17344760
In modern western society, women are seen as good and men are seen as bad.
Women are seen as pure victims, and you can't criticize them for anything, especially if they are being sluts and whores.
In a reasonable era, you would be able to shame her and excommunicate her from the family. But now, we live in 2016, as leftists say. So, all you can do now is watch in utter disgust as your slut whore sister does porn, and shames your family, and then when she's done it all, she'll find some stupid little fag with no backbone to "man up" and date her and then marry her. That's how it goes now.
id recommend her a few docos on the porn industry and how bad it really is. just google porn docos and an overwhelmingly number will show its true side. they chew girls out. very few make it big, others just get left behind. not to mention how many girls are forced to do things they dont want to do. be supportive all the same, dont cut her off.
>>17344797
If this was bait I wouldn't bring my sister into it
>>17344807
>Women are seen as pure victims, and you can't criticize them for anything, especially if they are being sluts and whores.
>>>/r9k/
>>17344807
/pol/ and /r9k/ really dont have a clue. stop falling for this shit because its not true lol.
>>17344760
Worried
That not the best line of work for girls
Just support her but remind her that's not a job she can do when she will be old
Make sure she don't get exploited maybe
You can't really do anything, but still try to keep contact with her. My mother was a prostitute and I cousin who is a pornstar. I still keep close ties with them both. Idk man.
It is what it is
With numb indifference.
>>17344760
If it were me I'd murder her to protect my family's name.
>>17344819
Aren't you worried for them ? That's high risk jobs
You reply how it makes you feel. Simple as that. You think she gives a fuck about her family's thoughts? She wouldnt have gotten into it then.
So just be you. You dont like it? Dont be a dick about it, but if she ever asks you how you feel, then truth it. Live your life your way bro.
>>17344828
Well, my mom quit prostitution before I was born. I come from a very poor and seedy family. I mean, my cousin basically sees it that she can work in a restaurant 7 days a week, or work two days a week making porn. She's also worked as a high class escort charging up to $200 an hour.
I mean, its her choice, and given her place, I'd probably have done the same. As for safety, she carries a gun
>>17344810
i'll agree that the argument overall is weak, but what can you do when every point is countered with 'x-privilege' or 'y-ism'?
Of course women can do wrong. The problem comes down to not being able to call a slut a slut without playing into this whole bullshit metagame of what society should be versus what it is.
Like how we can't discuss de facto problems that plague black society because some ignorant people will become more prejudiced by facts and taking them for more than what they are. It has to someone else's fault entirely. Hence muh white privilege and sexist society arguments ad naseum until it becomes a pissing contest.
>>17344850
That seems fine
>>17344810
What is it with you hipsters on this board telling people to go to /r9k/ every time women in western society are criticized? Stop being so insecure.
>>17344814
It is absolutely true, and /pol/ and /r9k/ have nothing to do with this. I have observed this stuff to be true for a long time now, and it gets worse as time goes on. Women in western society have the advantage over men, and women are allowed to be sluts and whores with no consequences, while men are still expected to "man up" and fulfill our gender roles. Stupid cunts.
>>17344898
no, it isnt true. im sure you've witnessed a few events but that doesnt mean shit. fuck off with your shitty rhetoric. its propaganda pushed by virgins who think everything on the internet is real. ive met plenty of women who dont sleep around and dont give a fuck. face it, your mas you dont get enough pussy. who cares who people sleep with, as long as theyre honest. sounds like you want to oppress.
Where the fuck are links to this dudes sisters porn?! Fuck! Come on guys!
Is it legal for OP to fap to porn his sister is in?
This is something I must know, for psychology reasons.
>>17344760
In this day and age? Who fucking cares? Everyone - EVERYONE - uses porn, and the girls are all someone's daughters and sisters.
Encourage her to keep developing saleable skills, though, because porn isn't something many women can do for long.
>>17344919
>WAAAAHHH!!! IT'S NOT TRUE BECAUSE I SAY SO AND YOUR WORDS MAKE ME FEEL BAD!!!!
I'm not a virgin and you sound incredibly insecure right now. How funny that you say my experiences don't matter, and are all rhetoric, but yours matter, because you're oh so smart and connected with everyone and everything, and since you have no actual argument, you just try to turn this into a "U CAN'T GET PUSSY" conversation because you're triggered.
Take off your fedora.
>>17344807
do you have any of your own thoughts or opinions? this feels like it was written by a bot designed to play Mad Libs with /pol/ posts
>>17344760
"Supposed to"? Don't be such a conformist, there's no rulebook for these types of situations. If you want to feel bad about it, feel bad about it. If you don't care, don't.
>>17345223
>triggered
>fedora
Wow what a shit storm of a thread.
A woman has every right to sleep with as many people as she wants. That being said everyone else has the right to judge them on it based off your own personal morals.
I personally feel very conflicted about it. I never bought into the idea that the "traditional family" was necessarily the only way to be, and I support everyone's right to live the way they want to, even if that means "expressing yourself sexually" (even i think that sounds retarded). On the flip side the negative social effects on these ideals are becoming increasingly apparent. There definately should be some happy medium where people get this freedom and fun but each everything doesn't get totally fucked in the process
>>17345464
They were all my own thoughts and opinions, although many others these days feel the same way I do.
I always expect the stupid hipsters on /adv/ to get angry when I criticize women. But still, certain things need to be said, and I will say (or type, in this case) them.
>>17345520
>There definately should be some happy medium where people get this freedom and fun but each everything doesn't get totally fucked in the process
Leftists have tried that, it doesn't work. The best they can come up with is to sperg out at men, and insult us, and tell us to "man up" and lose our morals.
But no, beyond that, there is no solution. Slut culture, degeneracy, was frowned upon by so many cultures and religions for so many ages for a fucking reason.
>>17345789
>Slut culture, degeneracy was frowned upon by so many cultures and religions for so many ages for a fucking reason.
Would you kindly elaborate what exactly this reason was?
>>17344778
Beat me to the punch, this...so much this.
>>17345863
You're autistic if you don't know the reason. But no, you're just pretending to be stupid so you can set me up for some hipster /adv/ style reply.
>>17345789
>Slut culture, degeneracy, was frowned upon by so many cultures and religions for so many ages for a fucking reason.
kek no not really
>>17345899
I'm not autistic I'm actually Chinese
>>17344760
As long as she's happy and be careful about disease, i don't understand what's the problem.
>>17345984
>I'm not autistic I'm actually Chinese
jej
>>17345973
"Slut culture" Let me guess this moron is American.
>>17344760
fap like there's no tomorrow
how dare you not provide sauce btw
I'll be that faggot and ask for sauce, since I'm assuming she has a stage name right?
let her do what she wants and stop trying to control what she does with her pussy it's fucking CREEPY
>>17345223
>"X CAN'T HAPPEN!!!"
>"Yes it can, for example i..."
>"WHY DOES YOUR EXPERIENCE COUNT AND MINE DOESN'T!!!!!"
Homo sapiens are very good in adapting themselves to their surroundings look at our society, 150years ago. Everything changed.
Women now no longer have to fill traditional posts. Chores can be done in a few hours instead of a full work week.
Inventions like the washing machine vacuum cleaner, etc. Reduced the required time spend on chores. This created a gap for women who traditionally did these. Woman are encouraged to fill this gap by performing the same role as the traditional male. (working and providing). This has huge economic benefits and is further encouraged in our capitalistic society, because in the end; everything is about money. (money has become a goal)
If you don't believe life is about money, that is fine, because we life in a society where not everyone has to follow the same idea or traditions (modern western society,) in the end it's you who forces yourself to do things.
The only problem I have with women filling up male roles is that it causes some people to think that men and women are the same. Despite genetic, hormonal and other bodily differences. This will influence how you think and who you are. The thought of men and women being the same is denying who women really are. A traditional role is important, because it shows how your ancestors lived. Not paying attention to this is arrogant, because you actually say: I am a genius and I know how to live my life better than all of them do.
>>17344760
link to your sister getting smashed?
>>17346112
Oh my god read some decent books. Try Bourdieu.
>>17346112
2/2
There is one thing I don't understand and that is why person X expects person y to behave in a certain manner (not become pornstar).
What is wrong about her becoming pornstar, besides any potential psychological, anal and vaginal damage. How does that affect you? I can advise not to take a parental or authoritarian role, because that doesn't work. People are supposed to make their own decision based on their own perception and view of the world. The last on is something you can influence. Trying to control a person's actions will only get you in conflict (unless the one you control is a spineless faggot). I think that trying to control a person is a sign of fear of not letting go and some sort of disrespect caused by misunderstanding (e.g. decision is irrational) of the other person's values.
>>17344760
>How is a man supposed to react upon learning his sister has gotten into porn?
My cousin has worked in porn for a while (you know her as Sophie Dee) so I can share a semi relevant experience.
React however you like, get upset, be supportive, whether you like it or not, she is now being immortalised on the internet sucking dick, getting fucked in the ass and having group sex with niggers. Unfortunately you can't change that one bit.
Be prepared for people to troll you, lock down your social media, don't tell people, not even those close to you.
I don't really have any problems because nobody knows that Sophie Dee is my cousin, her family was somewhat prepared because she did topless shoots (page 3) before she did porn.
>>17346115
Thanks for your constructive critique.
Never heard of him, will check that guy out. Sincerely:thank you for that.
>>17344827
We knew that much already, Muhammad.
>>17346112
>>17346120
Every once in a while, I read a lucid and thought-out post in which the poster has clearly made an effort to express his or her point of view that reminds me, to an even greater degree than the typical reactionary posts, why I don't take advice from people here. Thanks for the reminder.
>>17346126
The problem i have with your reasoning is that you present they way you think your ancestor lived as a natural state. I couldn't disagree more on this kind of point.
You also mix the situation of the whole humanity and the one of the western culture. Influence of sex on the social status isn't the same in all traditionnal societies.
But i totally agree on the importance of the invention of washing machines & co
>>17344760
You must ask on a vietnamese basket weaving board how you should react, instead of reacting naturally on your own.
>>17344919
>Insulting his virginity while defending abstinent women
Literally proving his point
>>17346120
while I completely agree with you, family members that make bad choices (not talking about morality or what she wants to do with her body) is painful to watch and usually, since they are family, when/if they crash the family member is usually there to pick them up.
>>17346111
That guy was doing the same thing to me, but he thought he could get away with it since he's a "cool" feminist /adv/ hipster faggot. No, I won't let him get away with it.
>>17345973
You are legitimately autistic, and you lack a basic comprehension of religion, culture and history.
>>17346038
I'm Canadian, retard.
>>17346134
>>17346120
How ironic that both of you think that everyone should be free to do what they want, but you also think that you should be able to literally shove your brave new world hipster ideologies down everyone else's throats, then smear the people that disagree with you. Typical leftist hipsters. If you can't understand why all societies stopped this type of behavior as much as possible for all of history, then you are autistic. OP's sister will be labelled as a slut and a whore for the rest of her life, and no decent normal man will ever want to date her.
