Maybe someone can tell me wtf my deal is, or give me advice on getting past it?
>finally get a bf
>been together 2 years
>he is perfect -- we were best friends for years before getting together
>like being cuddly with him, smooches and going on dates
but
>extremely uncomfortable when he tries to make out with me or tries to be sexual with me
i feel completely off-put by the idea of him touching me sexually. i don't like it at all. how can i love someone so much but hate the idea of him having sex with me?
I assume if his balls stay blue for much longer, he is going to leave me, but i really just DONT to..... i dont even know why,
Looooooooooool
>>17341862
>I assume if his balls stay blue for much longer, he is going to leave me
Do him a favor and let him go. You just like him or may love him, but seems just as a friend. You are only using him for emotional fulfillment.
Do you like girls perhaps? Or is there any sort of fetish that arouses you?
>>17341862
You one of em asexuals you hear about? Sex repulsion is a common theme with that herd.
>2 years
If he hasn't left you by now, he's been cheating on you.
is there anything you do find arousing or attractive?
>>17342034
this is the unfortunate truth.
>>17341894
>only using for emotional fulfillment
shockingly, anon, relationships aren't 100% about sex. i discovered some intimacy problems with my second bf which i wish he'd taken the time to work with me thru, because i was foolish enough to really care about him. it's hard for me to enjoy it anymore; i always feel like y'all are just looking for something to masturbate into, and maybe i'm not wrong.
>>17342066
Sex is an important part of a relationship. A relationship cannot be happy if there is no sexual compatibility.
>>17342088
maybe that's a good reason to check in with your partner every once in a while.
dating has always felt like unpaid prostitution to me, expected to put out at a moment's notice regardless of my emotional state. i bet anon's partner is lousy.
>>17342088
It's not the entire foundation in a relationship and it's not worth throwing away the trust you've built with someone when you hit a hiccup even when it's sexual in nature and it makes you uncomfortable to address.
