How does one work up the courage to ask a girl out?
I'm not shy at all when talking to them or making normal conversation with them, hell I even flirt with them. But when it comes to asking them out, I usually pussy out. I don't think I've ever actually asked a girl out (although weirdly enough I have had girlfriends)
>>17333129
you do it as normal conversation. it should feel normal. it should feel so normal that you understand that if you get denied it's not a big deal for you.
You almost have to loathe women all together to come up with the realization that their all selfish pieces of shit. Only then can you not give a shit enough to be able to ask them casually out.
>>17333146
I guess this is ok advice
>>17333140
how do I make it seem more normal?
>>17333129
Suppose you're chatting with a girl you like. Class is starting or you have to go to work or something is interrupting you. "This is fun and it's a shame we have to go now. Why don't we meet up for coffee/Coke later this afternoon, to continue the conversation?"
At the coffee meet-up. "This is fun. Would you like to have dinner Friday?" or "That concert/movie/artshow you mentioned sound interesting. ShallI get tickets for us for Friday?"