>>17331780
If you're still that hung up about sex you should probably sort your shit out with a therapist before getting a boyfriend.

>>17331787
LOL thanks,

While I am bisexual, largely because I was abused, I was referring to a relationship with a women.

>>17331780
I would probably stay away because she's likely fucked up in the head from the rape. Not her fault, but I'm not a martyr.

>>17331793
>>17331787
Did you two even read the OP or are you just stupid? OP is a guy, he expressly says so

>>17331793
I am a guy and I was molested and am trying to get a girlfriend.

Jesus, can you not read?

>>17331796
>>17331797
>how do you deal with this situation as a guy going into a relationship
That wording leaves room for ambiguity because it could refer to the other party as well.

I'm a guy but, if I were a woman, I'd likely still stay away. Past that, I have no perspective to offer because I am not a woman and have not been raped.

>>17331796
Yes, and OP is always a fag. What's the problem here?

>>17331797
Communicate with them. If you want to start things slow, let them know that. You don't necessarily have to drop the abusive past onto them if you're uncomfortable doing so immediately.

>>17331807
>how do you deal with this situation as a guy going into a relationship? Should you tell your partner that you have an abusive past and never had sex outside of that and to start things slow or would it be better to just say your a virgin or just nothing at all?
If you kept reading, it's pretty obvious that OP is male

>>17331825
See this post >>17331808

I just assume OP is always a fag