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Does my ex want me back/should I pursue this?

I was with this girl from 9th grade through till we started college. 4ish years. We ended up going to the same college, though we would have gone to it separately if we'd heard about it. We didn't get together much after college started because we were both caught up in the novelty of hanging out with new people, and we were already at the point where we were comfortable spending some time apart.

Later she started showing less affection, and eventually broke up with me and started dating someone new. Now that I look back I suspect cheating, but I never asked. It was a really bad breakup, happened in October.

I cut off contact in October and didn't even want to text again until sometime in April. I had a nice little mutual rebound relationship from November to March.

I think the breakup was much needed, and I've improved a lot as a person and made tons of friends that I probably wouldn't otherwise have made. The rebound didn't work out in the end but I learned a bit more about how relationships should work.

We texted once in April and it's been radio silence from then until 3ish weeks ago when she texts me about a souvenir I gave her and an inside joke about it.

If she's grown and changed like I have in this first year of college then I'd consider getting back with her, and if I'm reading her right, she's thinking the same. Pic is some subtle evidence, supported further by the amount of time we spend texting. I think I have a good read on her, I've known her for a long time. It's either that or she's trying really hard to build a friendship back up instead of a relationship. I can't tell.