If you and your partner have herpes, is it ok for that to be a high priority reason for being with them, granted you're quite compatible and love each other?
>>17328171
That's a strange question. Certainly if you both have herpes, that takes off the table a reason to break up. If one of you only had herpes, then that one couldn't fault the other too much for wanting to break up.
But it's not a specific reason to stay together. It depends if you're good as a couple, of course.
>>17328196
Seems like a good, if very small, reason to stay try harder to maintain the relationship to me. Dating sucks as it is. Adding "BTW I have herpes" into the mix just sounds awful.
>>17328226
As soon as I got with my gf a female coworker who previously tried to hook up with me messaged me wanting to hook up. I had told her that I had it but I guess since she has BPD she doesnt care? Not worth ruining my relationship I don't want to cheat but... I guess its observable that some people will knowingly hook up with someone who has it. Date? Probably less likely.
