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into the girlfriend zone
2016-07-06 01:03:46 Post No. 17328100
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into the girlfriend zone
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2016-07-06 01:03:46
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hey so like, holy fuck please help me out.
I've been seeing this guy for 6ish months. We're from the same town but hadn't been in contact for years, till we matched on tinder.
We talked for a while, wasn't sure he liked me until I got the brass to ask. Turns out I'm cute as heck. So I went ahead and visited him at school (his college is about 4 hours from mine). The sex was REALLY great, and we've been seeing each other since.
In that time there's been pet names, talking basically all day every day, etc. So like, the way you treat a girlfriend.
When we started seeing each other, he had just gotten out of a long term relationship (I didn't know how recently at the time) & at the beginning I wasn't sure I wanted this to be a relationship thing. Now I think I do.
The kicker: I know he's still seeing other girls. When I was trying to figure out where we stood, I asked and he told me (I appreciated the honesty). I know when he tells me he's out with some "friend" it's really some chick from tinder. I also know I'm his main chick, because told me that too. He likes me a lot, otherwise he wouldn't keep talking to me. But it's also kinda tearing me apart.
It's really stressful wondering if I'm only his main chick until I fuck up, or until someone replaces me, or until I'm not fun anymore. If I ask him to stop seeing other girls I'll feel like I'm cornering him or taking his freedom essentially. I don't want to just wait around for him to sow his wild oats and be ready to date again, but man I'm invested.
tl;dr is there a way to go from being a main chick to being an only chick, or did I fuck myself forever by allowing it to go on like this for so long?
