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/adv/, please enlighten me if at all possible: How on Earth
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/adv/, please enlighten me if at all possible:

How on Earth do you escalate social contact to sexual contact?
I've been with my first girlfriend for eight years, which was mostly initiated (and later terminated) by her. But now I've been single for almost six months in which time I'd not even kissed a girl.

Thing is, it's not like it's hard for me to make contact. I meet new people often and I've had a bunch of very fun, sometimes deep conversations.
Thing is is that I simply don't know how to escalate matters in a way that won't potentially sour her evening.

I'm deeply afraid of saying the wrong thing and being a harasser because of it, I don't want to hurt a girl's feelings or fill her with fear/disgust.

But by now I do kind of miss having sex, it's been a while.
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You mean like a quickie with a random stranger or a lasting relationship?
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>>17321723
Either/or really.
But mostly the casual sex, I'm not ready to jump into another near-decade relationship right now, plus, I'd like to just live life a little while before getting back into that game.
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>I'd like to just live life a little while before getting back into that game.

Why do you assume living life = sleeping with random whores?
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>>17321741
Whores is a bit much. Not everyone that's willing to casually have sex is immediately a whore.

Anyway, it's just something I've missed out on, and considering I'm not exactly looking for a new heavily comitted relationship right now (though what happens happens) casual sexb/dating is more or less where it's at for me.

I already spent the first 20 years of my life relying on nothing but porn and my hands, getting a little sick of that being all.
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>>17321731
There are apps and websites for people who just wanna fuck.
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