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30 year old 4chan lifer giving advice. Lawyer on business for a deal, so I have nothing to do tonight.
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>>17318020
I burned out after grafuating college six months ago, hard. The job market fucking sucks right now, and I can barely get a shitty waiting job to support myself. How do I get back the fire to achieve and make something of a professional career?
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>>17318026

Motivation can only push you so far, you need a "why" to pull you.

On a more practical note, the job market does blow everyone without mad connections or top creds is struggling. Don't have a gab in your resume. What did you graduate with?
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>>17318026
what was your major, what kind of job were you trying to get?
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If I shot an attacker in the back in Murica, will I get arrested?

Also, should I get a master's degree? How much does It matter when I search for a job?
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>>17318038

1) Like any legal question it depends. Would a reasonable person apprehend imminent deadly force? If no, then you might be charged with involuntary manslaughter under an imperfect self defense theory.

2) Master's in what?
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>>17318020
I want to be a medical sales rep. I have 2 years experience as a commission salesmen. I can either A go to school for a 4 year Bio degree to do this or B become a sales rep in the sex toy industry and use my actual rep experience to get the job. I would have to take out loans to go to school. What do?
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>>17318192
Neither one of these courses is a sure thing but the job is a good job and the degree is in stem so it seems OK to take loans for.
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>>17318036
>>17318026
Graduated with majors in chemistry and history, looking for any job that'll pay me. Nada aside from hospitality work.
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>>17318020
I have feelings for a guy with a girlfriend. What do?
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>>17318201
ever considered commissioning in the military?
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>>17318246
offer to fuck him?

duh
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Got a speeding ticket, went 60 in a 45. Requested discovery to see if the radar device was within the calibration period. It was. Any other ways to get out of it?
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you just admitted you did the crime, why do you feel that the law shouldn't apply to you?

pay the fine and be smarter next time
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>>17318250
Not from the US. Australian, and I don't think I've got the right temperament to join the military.
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So I really like my best friend but at this point we're basically SIBLING zoned. I've had a growing crush on her for about 2 years and last night I finally let it slip. I was crying real bad because I knew she COULDN'T like me back. She has some trouble with feeling and identifying her emotions and romantic feelings are a mystery to her. So now she feels guilty for not noticing when I'M the one with a crush.
Anyway, I've pretty much decided to not push her or talk about it ever again unless god willing she likes me back.
She's more touchy now too....
Is she flirting?
Do I have a chance at all?
How should I act around her?
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>>17318048
Interesting
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>>17318048
Wouldnt it be voluntary manslaughter since there wasn't an element of recklessness or criminal neligence and it was done in heat of the moment ?

Also what area of law do you specialise in?
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>>17318020
People start to dislike me after a while and cut me out of their lives. Any idea whats wrong with me? You think i can fix it?
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>>17318020
30 years old m8?
You're a wizard Harry
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Reposting here since the other law thread seems dead..

>>17318020
There was an anon in another thread which i'll link (>>17317882) who was discussing her domination fetish.
My ex had the same fetish in that she wanted to be taken advantage of(gagged, tied ect), but we never took it far because of course with any relationship, things can fall apart unexpectedly and the closer two people are, the worse the fall out may be.
Is there any legal barriers two people in a relationship can put into place to allow for say 'safe bedroom fun' each Friday night for instance, without either party having to worry about legal implications in the case of a break up?
We did try using safe words ect but she always complained that it felt 'too safe' and was a turn off. Didn't really put her in the mood knowing she could just end it like that(nor would this work with her wanting to wear a gag).

Any thoughts?
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How do you feel about being in a relationship but still having other chicks/one night stands?
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I'm 25 and in next week, I will be graduating my Master's in HR. I might have a job opportunity lined up in October, but in the meantime, I don't really know what to do in the summer time and how to be focusing on self-improvement. 4 months ago, my GF broke up with me and I've been focusing on myself a lot since then, it's been getting better.

I don't really have a goal in life now that I finished graduating, and that frightens me a bit. Any advice on how to manage the transition between student and a real worker?
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>>17318286
You cried in front of her? What was the context? details please
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>>17318020

I had an escort over last night for 30 mins.
Had no problem gettin hard but would not nutt for shit. I had been drinking and I'm not used to using condoms, but even when she took it off to finish me with a handjob I just wouldn't bust. Felt great but damn what the fuck?
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OP, are you happy enough right now that if you got seriously sick, would you fight to get better?
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>>17319140
>drinking
That's probably it, it makes things harder. It could also be the new situation; you aren't yet conditioned to finishing from that situation.
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>>17319144
She went an extra 10 mins to try to help me cum but I wouldn't and she I let her leave. Finished myself off with some lotion and bam like less than 30 seconds.

Maybe I just jack off too much, or maybe a little performance anxiety?
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I was with a prostitute for 30 min and I didn't come,
Until the last 3 minutes when I decided to "take matters into my own hands".
To me it wasn't worth it if I didn't come, I don't understand why people here have this problem so often
Note: I did it purely to check off a box on my list: "Achievement unlocked: have sex" and I don't care if I have sex again ever (/don't want to make the effort to)
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