I hate to sound like every other poster on here, but I have trouble

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2016-07-02 07:20:57 Post No. 17315664
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Anonymous 2016-07-02 07:20:57 Post No. 17315664 [Report]

I hate to sound like every other poster on here, but I have trouble talking to women that I want to date.

I just get too anxious and either don't do it or fuck it up by saying something stupid.

Any advice besides "Just Do It?"

The main fear I have, like most, is rejection and possible embarrassment. I can rationalize the situation, tell myself that it's not a big deal, but that doesn't help.

Any practical advice?

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Anonymous 2016-07-02 07:51:58 Post No.17315723
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Anonymous 2016-07-02 07:51:58 Post No.17315723 [Report]

>>17315664
Get out of your head.

You're thinking about it way too much. You're undervaluing yourself and putting them on pedestal. Also the fear of rejection is often way worse than actually being rejected. Most girls are pretty chill about it and are actually nice about putting guys down.

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Ra Santana (ID: !RaRaRqDpko) 2016-07-02 07:55:12 Post No.17315729
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Ra Santana (ID: !RaRaRqDpko) 2016-07-02 07:55:12 Post No.17315729 [Report]

>>17315664
everyone gets rejected

just play it off like shes wrong for doing so by not giving a fuck or laughing about her ill reception

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Anonymous 2016-07-02 07:56:08 Post No.17315732
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Anonymous 2016-07-02 07:56:08 Post No.17315732 [Report]

Like the first commenter said, you shouldnt think about it. It should come natural. If you "fuck up" she probably wont mind and if you make a joke about it yourself she might even find it very cute.