Is it wrong for me to ignore someone out of the blue? Basically I became friends with this girl for basically an entire semester. We ended up hooking up for quite a while. We also had plenty of pretty intimate sex.
Anyway she used to ask me about us but I made it clear that I "liked" her but I didn't want to date her. I think by doing this I sort of led her to believe we would eventually date. Eventually the semester ended and we both moved back to our respective homes, and she began to act way more clingy and annoying so I stopped responding to her texts. She still every so often asks me what's going on even though I haven't said anything to her in weeks.
Was beginning to ignore her the right thing to do, (because we weren't 'dating' by official terms) or should I have said/say something to her letting her know that I'm not interested anymore?
>>17313391
Doing either choice will hurt her. However, as many females have learned, ignoring others is the less confrontational method.
>>17313391
yeah that's pretty rude, you couldn't be assed to at least say like, "I don't think what we have is going to work LDR, sorry"? you just left someone with no closure and it's kinda a shitty thing to do. the only time straight dropping people is an okay thing is when they fuck you over to an extent that you're just done.
>>17313406
>>17313402
so now that it's been several weeks afterwards, what should I say to her? I've already slept with other women.
Something along the lines of "Hey I'm sorry I didn't respond. I didn't mean to leave you wondering. I needed some time to myself. I don't think what we have is going to work, I'm sorry."
bump. should I say something or is it far too late for that?
>>17313747
Just let sleeping dogs die.
Yes, you're an asshole. You knew you weren't interested but you used her and led her on. On top of that you're too much of a pussy to admit what you did to her. You should at least have the decency to end it properly.
>>17313747
No, it's not too late. She will be hurt all the same, so at least make it clear to her. Don't use euphemism and don't sugarcoat it. You have to be clear that there's no chance you'll ever date her.
