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We often deal with being let down, but what to do when it's all the way around? 2016-07-01 17:19:53 Post No. 17313223
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We often deal with being let down, but what to do when it's all the way around? OP 2016-07-01 17:19:53 Post No. 17313223 [Report]

>Go to a party with best female friend
>There is a chick I like for a while now
>Star getting drunk and having a great time with chick
>Chick's brother stars harassing friend (He's also a mutual friend of ours and has had a crush with friend for some time)
>She tells me
>I try to go "pacifist" and tell her to stay with chick and me away from the brother
>She gets upset and wants to go home by herself
>I tell her that is dangerous and I will go with her, but at this point she doesn't want to (she wanted to walk home and it was late)
>I proceed to go after her anyway
>Someone offers her a ride
>Somehow I feel relieved and decide to stay with chick feeling she was safe
>The day after she tells me I'm shit because I didn't care at all about what happened to her
>At the time I didn't realize, but I was blinded I guess, I think she's right and I failed giving her support, now I'm afraid friendship won't be the same, I already apologized but idk it doesn't feel the same. How do I fix things? I appreciate her frienship way more than any "prospect" who I'm not even sure If likes me. But I slipped somehow, I feel really bad.

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Anonymous 2016-07-01 17:27:30 Post No.17313240
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Anonymous 2016-07-01 17:27:30 Post No.17313240 [Report]

due to the lack of names im not entirely sure which girl was which and what exactly happened.

but from the jist of it, the best you can do is apologize, try to play it off as a drunken dumb blindness and hope she moves on from there.

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OP 2016-07-01 17:35:32 Post No.17313259
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OP 2016-07-01 17:35:32 Post No.17313259 [Report]

"Friend" is the person I went with
"Chick" is the girl I liked
Sorry for confusion, but thanks! I already apologized and told her what was going on on my mind, I just need to see another points of view, how keep fixing things and take it off my chest too I guess.

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Ironically Autistic (ID: !!FY0DcRTq+cW) 2016-07-01 17:40:14 Post No.17313269
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Ironically Autistic (ID: !!FY0DcRTq+cW) 2016-07-01 17:40:14 Post No.17313269 [Report]

>>17313240
I think the chick's brother tried to hook up with OP'S friend and she wasn't up for it. OP was more worried about the chick at the time so he ignored his friend that night, and now she is upset with him because she got the impression that he didn't give a fuck about what happened to her.

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OP 2016-07-01 17:47:02 Post No.17313277
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OP 2016-07-01 17:47:02 Post No.17313277 [Report]

>>17313269
Yes unfortunately that's the case. The problem is chick's brother kinda overdid it, so it wasn't like only a "flirting" thing which makes things worse. I should have cared more.