>>17311336
How do I know if i have a "short vagina" ? This is new I never heard about it :O

>>17311342
I don't know if it's a common issue. I found out by using a dildo, and measuring how deep it went inside.

>>17311336
An insecure bitch is an insecure bitch. This is the man you chose, one who's insecurities are more powerful than anything you can say or do.

What a catch.

>>17311344
Have you doctor to check it out? Maybe your hymen is too thick and too deep?

>>17311336
"Don't worry about your small penis babe, I've got a short vagina. Big dicks like totally suck, I've had enough big dicks to last the rest of my life"

why is your boyfriend so insecure top kek

>>17311352
>Maybe your hymen is too thick and too deep?
Do you even know what a hymen is?

>>17311352
Kek not OP but that's not how hymens work.

>>17311360
>>17311361
Just read it again she had sex with a big size before lol. Then I don't know how to tell maybe you should go to the doctor to have a look

>>17311336
your vagina is built to accommodate large objects but it requires arousal to expand. shoving a dry dildo up your twat and measuring doesn't seem arousing. i guarantee you can take more than 4".

the issue is likely an inability for you to relax and/or a lack of arousal. this would cause penetration to be painful. i suggest you find some time for yourself and your dildo and really go at it for awhile. get yourself off and then try easing it in and as far as you can.

as for penis insecurity, most guys are like that. it's mostly attributed to porn warping our ideas on what's normal. if this weren't a SFW board then i could post pics that would ease his mind but i don't feel like getting banned from this hugbox for a few days.

have him look up statistics on penis length. if he falls under the average category then perhaps he'll calm down a bit.

the most important thing you can do is to show him how much you love him and his penis. the idea of "cock worship" works to boost his self-confidence and for him to get away from the idea of comparing his dick to others. show him how much you enjoy his cock, beg for it, spend the time to make him feel good, and express how you only want him.

>>17311374
>shoving a dry dildo up your twat and measuring doesn't seem arousing.
>implying that's how I went about it

I have a high libido. I masturbate 2-4 times a day, have taught myself how to chain multiple orgasms, and know for a fact that my vagina will not accommodate anything above 4".

My boyfriend knows the statistics, knows he's average, but he's still insecure. We haven't actually done anything sexual yet (aside from sexting). I plan on trying as hard as possible to make him comfortable and secure when we do have sex, which is why I made this thread. I want to be prepared and ease his mind/insecurities. He's worried about his performance, size, etc. and doesn't want to disappoint me, even though I know he won't.

>>17311389
wait, so does your bf have a 4" penis? that's below average friend. he has a very valid reason to be insecure if he has 4" penis.

if he's worried about his size and performance this much before the act then he's fucked when you guys get to it. it's made worse that it's the first time between the two of you. he's going to go limp and fast. do your best not to make note of it too much. return to kissing, talk to him, and get him out of his own head since it's over if he gets stuck in it. i hope you enjoy sucking dick cause you'll have to try and revive his limp penis a few times.

>>17311342
>short vagina

Is this like a troll for small dicked people?

>>17311396
5.5"

I'm not expecting him to fuck me like a Grecian god the first time around. I'm patient and I'll do whatever it takes to make him feel comfortable, no matter how long it takes. I really just want to know how to tell him his size is perfect. I don't know how to phrase it without it coming off the wrong way.

>>17311419
bruh, you haven't done anything sexual with him but you keep insisting upon his penis being perfect.

you don't fucking know that and he knows that you don't know that. it feels forced and disingenuous. it's like you pity him and his insecurities so you're just going to say anything to make him feel better regardless of validity.

>>17311438
We've sexted, I've seen pictures. Obviously if it's different irl than what I've seen, my opinion might change. I know for a fact that if he's being honest about his measurements, then yes, it's perfect.

>>17311446

get him drunk, suck his dick, get on top at first, moan a lot and the let him take over, works like a charm

source: my ex

>>17311346
SLAM DUNK!

you're probably going to have to cater to his fetish/do whatever gets him in the mood, but you are probably better off leaving him and finding someone else or just be okay having a sexless relationship with him. It's not going to be a matter of what you say if you cant already convince him by talking to him

Speaking as a female that started on an 8" but can only accomidate about 6.5", I feel you. Too much dick can be really painful not matter how aroused you are, and to the idiots that think that vaginas can take any length, I direct you here: http://www.webmd.com/women/features/vagina-size

Most women can only take the first 4-5" of a penis, so women that take more are definitely abnormal. Personally, I would wait until you guys have sex, help guide him into giving you orgasmic bliss, and praising him for the good job he did. Most guys need guiding anyway because sex is different between women (something that most men don't fucking get) and communication about what is pleasurable to each of you is essential. You could always tell him that his size is a fetish for you and that anything larger is intimidating, which, for someone who knows they're "smaller" inside than average, is definitely the truth.

>>17311336
Also, dafuq is with your picture?

My husband is slightly too big, like it starts to hurt after a while if he goes to hard. It dried up his insecurities pretty fast when it became clear he couldn't go balls deep willy nilly.
If the sizes are as you say, then maybe the same thing will happen?

Either way, sex and communication are the only way to get your message clear.