>>17310073
Every time I see that picture I wonder why she's wearing two pairs of panties.

Anyway, sounds like it's either a problem with your fiancee's tightness (tell her to do kegels, should resolve in 1-3 months) or you have death grip. Are you circumcised?

it's just that you're having sex very often and it becomes routine and boring

Do it less often and put more passion into it.

>>17310073
death grip probably.

if you masturbate at a high frequency with a tight grip then her vagina probably doesn't feel tight and/or the sensations are too subtle to be deemed pleasurable.

it probably feels like nothing if you've got legit death grip.

solution is to stop masturbating/lower frequency drastically.

>>17310083
I am circumcised. And I do have death grip, I think. It's like the only thing that keeps me from coming too quickly I think.

>>17310091
These past 2 weeks I haven't masturbated much at all, but that's kind of why the desire to do so has grown so much.

That and I kind of just miss porn on /gif/ I guess.


So you're all basically saying to just stop masturbating and eventually my desire to will go away?

>>17310104
>So you're all basically saying to just stop masturbating and eventually my desire to will go away?

Yes. Or loosen your grip.

3 times a day? holy fuck man. my gf wears me out at once a day. 3 times a day i'd hang myself.

i guess everyone is different. to me every other day is ideal

>>17310104
no, stop/lower frequency of masturbation and sex will probably be more pleasurable which would lead to you not having the desire to masturbate since you could just fuck your fiancee.

>>17310073
Have both of you do kegels.

>>17310073
>the ipad is literally cardboard
I don't know if I should be laughing or pissed.

>>17310073
You love your fiancee, right? Or are you starting to lose interest in the relationship?

Whatever your answer, the "cut down on masturbating" advice is good.

>>17310083
the black ones are shorts

>>17310323
I think so, yeah. I'm not so sure what that means exactly, but it might just be that I'm so used to having her with me I don't know what I would ever do if she left.
Ok I will.

Actually, maybe I wasn't clear.

I haven't masturbated much lately, at all.

I've been wanting to because I remember how nice it feels to cuddle up alone to porn and ow nice my hand feels but having sex 3 times a day with my fiancee has made that not possible. That's why I want to do it again.

That's what I mean to be asking for advice about.

I was in the same position with a long-term girlfriend.

Cut off the porn for some time (a month or two) and it will tend to resolve itself.
If it doesn't resolve, then you have a bigger problem at hand.

Also, quitting porn may not be as easy as it seems, so maybe you want to tell your girl about it so she can support you.

>>17310418
The thing is I don't really see the problem with it yet? Like I don't get why I need to quit, persay.. I just kind of want to jack off to /gif/ but I know my fiancee wouldn't like that so I'd have to do it when she's not with me.

Why exactly is that bad?

>>17310426
I was exactly like that, including the feeling of wanting to have a wank and actually looking forward to times without my girlfriend to actually get that wank and telling myself that it's not related to porn at all.

Trust me, once you try stay away from porn/self-pleasure for more than a week you'll see how strong you'll be drawn into it.

Just don't subscribe to all the nofap magic/religious BS, just try it as an experiment for yourself.

>>17310408
What you're doing with the death grip super fap is bad for your dick. Not only is it desensitizing (making regular sex feel inferior) if you get at it hard enough you might wind up doing some damage. It's really a habit you need to break or sex is never going to be good for you again.

Keep up the no fap, but let your girlfriend take care of you. You'll cum eventually and it won't be as good as your death grip until your body forgets the death grip and you're acclimated to normal shit again.

Or maybe you fucked up irreparably already, who know.

>>17310445
To this guy's point, every time you orgasm there's a fun neurotransmitter cocktail shot through your brain that makes your dick feel like bliss. You brain begins to associate porn and the specifically fierce way you masturbate with that orgasm, to the detriment of EVERY OTHER WAY TO HAVE AN ORGASM EVER. You might be a porn addict, stop if you can.

>>17310465
I mean I cum from sex always but it's not quite as nice of a feeling. I can see your point though thank you.

>>17310480
>I mean I cum from sex always
Then just remember, it could always be worse. Threads like these tend to be "I can't even get it up with my girlfriend anymore but I don't think my masturbation habits and vietnamese ladyboy collection is a problem". Sounds like your shit's under control for now, but if you want sex to be better, you know what needs to be done. Plus it's not a bad idea to forego porn for a while. I don't even know why you look at porn with a pussy to work out.

>>17310491
It's because it's less of a workout to watch porn than it is to have actual sex and seeing a fresh face/body is a turn-on when you're having sex with the same person so much.

>>17310495
>It's because it's less of a workout to watch porn
That's not really a positive. Plus there is such thing as low impact sexual intimacy, you don't have to go full jackhammer every time you have sex.

>seeing a fresh face/body is a turn-on when you're having sex with the same person so much
Yeah, maybe for a little variety, but pussy is pussy is pussy is pussy >>>>>>> power gap >>>>>>> dog and peanut butter >>>>>>>>>>>> masturbating by yourself

>>17310090
This.

Had sex with my girlfriend usually about 3 to 4 times a day. Turns out we both got kind of sick of it and already questioned our sex life. But then we turned it down to once every one or two days and it's insanely great again.

too much sex can be a bad thing

sounds like ur just bored bro. take it easy is my advice.

Is your hand doing anything this Saturday?

>>17310311
How do I into reverse kegels? I never know if I'm using the right muscle or nothibg moves at all.

>>17310872
Chick or dick?

>>17310884
Male. Never heard of female reverse kegels.

>>17310887
I don't know what you mean by reverse kegels.

Just go pee and then stop it mid pee. That's your pc muscle.

Jusr don't clench your butt.

>>17310894
Only working on that is bad though. You have to balance it by doing reverse kegels too. Just no clue how those work. All guides are useless in my opinion.

>>17310849
No? Why lol

>>17310902
You're swallowin' memes son.

>>17310341
look deeeper, there i a mystery white strap on her hip.