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My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We have
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We have been sexually active ever since we started hooking-up and dated. She has the ring, and I like not having to use a condom. At first, when we were using a condom I could last 15 to 20 min of intense intercourse and now, without it, I last 3 min tops. Why is this happening? It also seems to turn her off and worries her sometimes cause it's not as long. I always get mad at myself and want to go again like I have something to prove.

TL;DR: I'm cumming too fast when having sex without a condom and I'm really worried about it.
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How to build stamina: EDGING.

Bring yourself to the point where you feel like you're going to cum, then stop. Do this over and over while masturbating. Never let yourself cum until you've been masturbating for at least 20 mins.

Once you get in the habit of not cumming in 15 mins or less, it will be easy to last longer
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Condoms makes your dick less sensitive. Your girl should take you cumming fast a compliment
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>>17306571
I've been masturbating like this since I'm 12 years old, but it's just not possible to stop thrusting while having sex and keep it interesting, sex without a condom it's a torture.
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just take some viagra dued
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>>17306721

>it's just not possible to stop thrusting while having sex and keep it interesting

you're not supposed to completely stop dummy. You just slow down, take it easy for a sec until the urge to cum subsides, and then continue fucking. Do you think your girlfriend would prefer that or the two-pump chump she's got now?
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>>17306508
Basically you've been fucking with a rubber so long you're not used to what real flesh feels like on your dick. Super good right? That's why you're cumming so fast.

They make lubricants that are supposed to have light numbing agents in them to increase longevity, but I have no experience with that crap. You could just go back to the condom on. Maybe not every time, because as someone who's had both I'm picking raw every time, but just sometimes so you can give her the long hard pounding and not cum instantly. Or you just keep having sex without the condom until you've adjusted to the sensation.

Have you been stopping sex each time you cum? You should really be trying to get back in there after the first one, you've got way more stamina the second go round anyway, let you feel it longer before you blow. Just keep at it till you're good again, don't get all psyched out about it. Sex is supposed to be fun, not pressure filled.
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>>17307072
Just having my penis inside her makes me want to cum, it feels super tight and warm.
>>17307101
>You should really be trying to get back in there after the first one
I'm always doing this, it's really shitty though, mostly because I'm not able to cum before my partner gets sore, that's like 40 minute of hard pounding, so it's been impossible for us to cum at the same time.
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>>17307383
Wow, that's a hell of a refractory period. Are you at least making her cum BEFORE you since obviously your issue is making her dry up? Just be real with her, her pussy is so amazing you blow in seconds, so it's just gonna take some time to adjust. As long as you're getting her off too I don't see what the problem is. You'll get back to cumming together eventually.
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>>17306508
Same with me, I cum after 5minutes of penetration without condom. The trick is to not pull out and just keep going. It's pretty hot, I'll lose hardness, but love it so much that i'm diamonds after 5 minutes. From then on I can go on for at least half an hour.
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>>17307394
It makes me feel like a failure at sex tbqh, now I feel terrified of having sex without a condom with someone else in the future, she'd probably laugh at me. I'd laugh at me, for sure.
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>>17307419
And you keep thrusting while limp? You are a hero.
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>>17307420
This is the root of your problem man. Your own insecurities. I'm sure your girl making a big deal out of it isn't helping, which is super shitty on her part, but again, this is something you two should work out together. If she's not a mature enough adult to discuss this kind of thing in a rational manner, than you should dump the dumb bitch.
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>>17306508
The answer to your problems is LUBE

I'm not even kidding. Less friction will mean less stimulation, but less stimulation will make your sex sessions longer. Get a cheap water based lube at walmart near the condoms and try it out next time you guys have sex. Use enough to just cover your junk and re-apply as needed. Worked wonders for me.
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