>>17304959
>I'm really starting to find myself unhappy in the relationship and I don't think I want to be with her forever.

Why?

>>17304959
So break up. I wish people would just take control of their life and stop wasting time being unhappy for something that may happen.

>>17304963
She's really controlling and is negative. She is always judging and critiquing people, be it on the street or social media. I'm more open minded and don't really care how people look or what they do but she always has a negative comment.

>>17305067
Do you not see the relationship lasting then?

>>17305091
We're polar opposites in that regard. It seems like that shows up most in the relationships compared to our similarities. Even if we did break up though, I don't know what I would do.

>>17305067
How did you miss this for the last 3yrs??

>>17305109
Well it really seems to bother you. Before breaking up, try talking to her. Also, just out of curiosity, what does she look like? Do you think she's happy with how she looks?

>>17305110
It was long distance, I guess it just didn't really show up. It seems like a more recent thing, but it's intolerable.

>>17305113
She's insecure. I've tried delivering an ultimatum that if she doesn't change, I'll leave, and she's doing good but I'm starting to see that it's part of her personality and that she'll eventually go back to the old ways.

>>17305113
She's insecure with her looks, I mean. She's a little chubby but certainly no land whale or anything.

>>17305137
>>17305134
The insecurity is probably why she does what she does then.

In the end, if it makes you unhappy, it makes you unhappy. Your choices are either to stay and be unhappy, or leave. There's no fixing someone

>>17305144
Thanks man. I just feel a bit bad because I don't hate her or anything, I like her quite a bit. I'm just not happy though, and there's no way I could spend my whole life feeling this way.