Long distance relationship, 500km, 7months. I visited her once,

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2016-06-28 17:06:42 Post No. 17303216
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Anonymous 2016-06-28 17:06:42 Post No. 17303216 [Report]

Long distance relationship, 500km, 7months.
I visited her once, she did it once too. I want her to come at least 2 times for each time that I go, because we have little to no space/time to actually spend time together/alone in her family's house on the weekends that I would go, because the family is always in the house and they won't let us getting alone.
Here we have the house and my car for ourselves, I also said that we would still spend the same amount of money on traveling(that is, she wouldn't spend 2 times more). But she is reluctant... its a pretty big deal to me, am I being selfish to think like this?

LDR haters pls go, I know its shit but i didn't ask for this, I had to move out of city after we started dating and we are willing to continue.

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Anonymous 2016-06-28 18:05:41 Post No.17303376
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Anonymous 2016-06-28 18:05:41 Post No.17303376 [Report]

>>17303216
Only 500 km? I drive that for two days of work. Unless you're still in highschool or extremely busy all of the time it shouldn't be that hard to see each other that often.

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Anonymous 2016-06-28 18:11:58 Post No.17303390
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Anonymous 2016-06-28 18:11:58 Post No.17303390 [Report]

Had a gf that lived 300km from me, had to take train about once or twice every 2 months to meet her.

I think you could help pay for her if she is reluctant about how much she has to pay. Especially since it's your idea and you seemingly want that more.

Good luck with your relationship man :)

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Anonymous 2016-06-28 18:18:28 Post No.17303419
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Anonymous 2016-06-28 18:18:28 Post No.17303419 [Report]

>>17303216
>LDR haters pls go, I know its shit but i didn't ask for this, I had to move out of city after we started dating and we are willing to continue

Well since you said that I won't criticize.

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Anonymous 2016-06-28 18:22:06 Post No.17303432
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Anonymous 2016-06-28 18:22:06 Post No.17303432 [Report]

>>17303376
Its an 8 hours drive, also the costs in fuel are pretty big here in this shithole that I live, almost 1/3 of the minimum salary.

>>17303390
Yeah we would split the costs, thats what i meant with
>we would still spend the same amount of money on traveling(that is, she wouldn't spend 2 times more)