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2016-06-25 17:00:22 Post No. 17292035
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Anonymous
2016-06-25 17:00:22
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So recently in a sort of relationship with this girl for about a week. Three nights out of this week we've ended up naked in bed together.
First night I didn't have any condoms and I just thought, oh dang, whatever... I'll buy some soon. So no intercourse.
Couple days later, I bought some, we ended up in bed together again. I tell her I have some condoms, she looks nervous then confesses she's never had sex before. I was a little surprised, but I told her no pressure, and only when she wants to. A bit of time passes and she tells me she wants to try. Sweet! I condom up and she laid back. I make sure she gets nice and wet, then try to go for it.
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She won't relax and it's impossible for me to get inside without just forcing it. Realizing she's really nervous I sit back, and finger her until she relaxes a bit. Problem is, during this time I start losing my erection. However, manage to slide in a bit for a while, but now I'm the one unable to keep it together, lose my erection and we decide to stop.
Last night we end up in bed together again. She gets really wet, and I get really hard. I ask her if she wants to try again... and the mood shifts, she tells me she's afraid to try and fail because she thinks I'll be disappointed if it doesn't work out. I give her lots of reassurance, but we spend the whole night together again, just naked, no sex.
I'm a bit frustrated because naturally I want to sex her, but I also want her to feel comfortable, safe, and not pressured. I don't think I can spend many more nights with her, where we strip down to nothing and there's no actual sex though.
On top of this problem, I am also not sure I want to continue the relationship with her for completely unrelated reasons, but fear if this isn't resolved she will think I am uninterested because of this reason and I don't want that plaguing her mind and cause her future problems with this.
Please feel free to weigh in, call me faggot, share your own sex problems, etc.