Hey, /adv/. You guys kinda helped me get my life together before. I was a hikikomori for two years. I recently got a job working IT about a month ago.
Now, I'm talking to a girl a year or so younger than me; I'm 20, turning 21 next month. We've been on about three or so dates, and things are going smoothly.
Recently, she brought up the topic of sex. I'm a virgin, and I've told her that. I'm kinda nervous about our upcoming date in a few days. I think she might expect us to fuck, but I'm not sure.
I've thought about buying confoms prior to our date, just in case, but I don't want to weird her out or make her think I am creepy.
I'm not entirely sure what to do. I would like to have sex with her, but I'm not sure.
Not wanting to pound her until she's numb would make her think you're creepy.
>>17288005
Same
>>17287976
Absolutely nothing creepy about bringing condoms to the date. If it gets to the sex just use it, if it doesn't you don't have to mention that you have it on you.
As for actual sex, the best you can do is try to enjoy the moment instead of worrying about your performance or anything like that.
Lastly, nothing wrong with you being virgin at your age.
Satan bless, anon, you will be fine.
>>17288101
Thank you, anon.
>>17287976
Get the condoms just in case. No need to bring them out unless they're needed.
Quick virgin guide I give every time:
1) not too long foreplay basically hold her tight, kiss, then grope firmly without shame, then start kissing groping and removing clothes
2) Condom has the right side and the wrong side, see which side rolls down the dong, remove air from the tip before that
3) open condom just before putting it so it won't get dry BUT WATCH OUT, you may lose boner if you don't do it fast enough, so suck her or let her suck you while you are fighting the condom
4) It's good to masturbate just before because it may make it longer, but if you are porn addict and fapped like 10 times yesterday it might be possible that you won't come from humping the pussy or even won't get excited enough to make it hard - so best option, cold turkey from porn and fapping, and one shot before the date
5) it's up? Start humping, missionary is the easiest because you will figure out puss better since you see it. if the girl is experienced you can do from behind, she will guide the dong. Anyway you can brush the puss as a foreplay with your dick and figure out where the hole is.
5) Not up? Emergency scenario, go oral on her. Read about giving oral before just in case. It's also good for learning how female works.
5) Don't expect porn scenario, don't try to parrot what you've seen in porn, it rarely is like porn. First time will be clumsy as fuck, but you'll train yourself with time. Just try to start and finish it right.
7) Put it out when you are cumming, when dick goes flat inside the condom might go off, you don't want that. So it's better earlier than later.
I'll make this into a pasta I think. Anyone has anything to add here?
Here is how it goes. You go on a date. You kiss. You move from there.
