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2016-06-23 08:23:51 Post No. 17284442
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2016-06-23 08:23:51
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My girlfriend wants to start doing cam girl stuff, to get some money and because it's fun and likes the validation (kind of a red flag, but I always knew she has shitty self steem, and I've tried to help it but no way). I like the idea and even have always wanted to upload videos of ourselves or webcam, but she keeps telling me that doing it alone would probably get her more money, which I could understand and probably doesn't want to share the money, but oh well.
Apart from that, the thing that bugs me is that I'm a rather jealous guy, so if she started doing it alone it I told her that I'd be grateful if she sent me the stuff before, if she told me when she's going live and so on. She thought this was an "ask for permission" kind of thing and got really defensive, and told me that she'd do it even if I didn't like it, and that it isn't that important for her, just some money, so I felt like she was downplaying my feelings saying it was an overreaction
We talked a bit about it and we seemed to get to a common point, that she understands how I felt, and if she ever does it we'd start together and stuff. But I'm still slightly worry. I'm a really jealous person, and maybe now the concept doesn't scare me that much, but once it starts I might get trust issues if she does private shows and that kind of thing.
Is it wrong for me to want to decide some kind of rules to it? I don't want to sound like a manipulative jerk, but for me this thing is way too related to intimacy and our privacy, and I don't want to live forever thinking about maybe she's having some kind of affair with a viewer online...
