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>texting a qt girl over a few weeks
>we seem to like each other, we have multiple-text-long convos with each other
(This isn't the sort of thing where we met online and never actually met irl, we know each other from school, and used to hang out at lunch)
>I say we should hang out again some time, she says she likes to go to the park and a bookstore
>no actual solid plans made, but she said she'd be free next week
>think I'm being a little too pushy, I'm the one who started the last few chats, decide to wait for her to text me
>that was a week ago, no replies since
Did I fuck up? What should I do? I don't want to make her feel pressured to hang out with me, but I also don't want her to think I don't want to.
Also;
If I mange to fix this, how do I make it clear to her I want a relationship? I think she might only think of me as a friend, but I'm not sure if it's because she doesn't want a relationship, or because I haven't really made it clear what I want.
Thanks for any help
Bump. Anyone?
I'm a total n00b with relationships, but even I can tell you that you should hit her up again. Hooking the fish is half the fight, reel that bitch in. Try to send a text that doesn't pressure her too much ("You still free or will our trip to the bookstore happen another time?" or something).
>>17268651
Just text her out of the blue again and ask her if she'd like to hang out
Double text is still okay, but never go beyond a triple text
>>17268803
I have a feeling you're right but the fact that you used the sentence "Hooking the fish is half the fight, reel that bitch in" really doesn't make me think your advice is not totally sound
>>17268651
Man, the same thing literally happened to me about 1 year ago. She was my oneitis and I am pretty sure she was into me as well as she was always telling me how she likes talking to me. However, she never initiated any conversations. One time I asked her to hang out and she was very glad to do so.
We did go out but she showed absolutely no interest in me beyond friendship level and I was too much of a pussy to do anything anyway. We never talked afterwards, simply because that she would apparently rather lose any contact than message me first.
Then so be it. I literally friendzoned my oneitis and even though I might sometimes regret it I believe it is the correct decision to cut out someone who doesn't really care about you from your life. All human relationships are controlled by the person who needs them the least. Which one are you?
