Broke up. First it was only anger, thought It's over once it ended. Now I'm missing her damn fucking much. I can't find interest in anything, nothing brings joy, I return to her in my head constantly. 3 weeks after now.
When does it go away? How to speed it up? Will it ever get better?
Anyone who's been through that?
Literally everyone who's ever broken up with anyone has been through this. It sucks, but it'll go away after a while, just go out and engage with other people, live life and try to not dwell.
Takes everyone a different amount of time to get past it. First time it took me 2 years. Last time took about 2 months.
>>17267024
well what helped me was hanging out with my friends and having a good time with them. eventually, i started seeing other people too and i realized there were "plenty of fish in the sea", just like what everyone says.
working out and focusing on my hobbies also helped. i also liked that i had more money to spare.
it does get better though op. i ended up meeting people who were much better than the ex that hurt me. i wouldn't be with my current if i had stuck to my ex.
>>17267057
This so much fucking this
Here's what helped me when my gf of 6 years and I broke up
1. Don't give yourself too much time alone
2. Focus on bettering yourself ( be it at your job, physically, religiously?,w.e...... git good nigga)
3. Start new hobbies. Usually when you get into a hobby you meet new people
4. Do what you love to do (fishing, hunting, bmx, etc etc)
5. Hang out with friends as often as possible
6. Avoid self medicating
7. Work out, it feels amazing to see gains and it is great for relieving stress. For me this is what pulled me through it and raised my self esteem. I was starting to get stares and smiles from girls at the gym and that feels really fucking good my dude
