>Cute co-worker gets moved to my shift
>I've always seen her around, but never really had the guts to talk to her before
>Notice she's reading some manga, strike up a conversation
>We get along for a few days
>Eventually the topic about good places to eat is brought up
>She finds out I don't go out much because I don't know the best eateries
>She insists on taking me around town all this weekend for food, drinking, and anime
>Watching Willow right now at her place, we're getting ramen later
How can I ask her out on an actual date without risking our friendship? She's really cool, and I don't want to make things awkward if she's not intrested.
>>17264463
Do not ask her out!!! Don't you realise strongest relationships start as a friendship? Be cool and be patient. Play her game, go places she wants you to take. Find out what type of person she is, what she wants in guys. Be the guy she wants to date but dont show her toyr attraction. At one point she will fall for you but that comes with time. As long as you're not showing even the slightest sign that you want to date her.
She must fall for you and only then you can go for the kill
>>17264502
How to become a beta orbiter: the post
>>17264534
I've infiltrated vagina's by being her friend for a good while. I've fucked girls who were friends before.
Just don't let the moment pass you.
>>17264534
That's a dank meme you've got there. I'd sure like a hit of that.
>>17264534
Oh more anxious 14 year olds on /adv/ it seems
>22
>almost 4 years into relationship now
>friendzone for only like over 2 months
You're doing fine OP keep it up and MAKE the next date into a real date. you know what to do come on now.
>>17264534
>how to let everyone know I'm still a virgin without explicitly stating it
the post.
>>17264502
is good advice. there's nothing wrong with showing your attraction (being flirty), but outright just asking her out is clumsy and not attractive or suave in the slightest
>>17264502
I would only agree with you if op can seal the deal asap because some girls keep their beta orbiters blue balls for years and leave them as backup or as an ego boost. also it would be painful for op to see his crush getting railed by other guys while they are friends.
>>17264586
Mate, if you're abstaining for YEARS waiting for a girl who doesn't want you, if you're allowing yourself to be someone else's "backup," that's your own decision. Stop talking about the "friend zone" like it's being imposed on you.
>>17264586
The key here is to be the guy she wants. Be her perfect "boyfriend". Thats why he has to find out what she wants in guys asap. If you're confident and respect yourself and space between you two, at one point she'll fucking scream for your dick. Friendzone happens when girl finds out you're dependent on her. If you have your own life and shes just a hangout buddy, she wont friendzone you
>>17264582
>>17264593
>>17264593
I get it. So show intrest, just don't act on it right away?
Okay. I think I can do it.
>>17264605
yeah you need to show her that you can be more then friends by showing her you can be a potential lover.
>>17264502
In this situation, yes. Dating co-workers is always tricky. Tread carefully. If it were just a girl he met at a random event, then no. Then he should ask her out ASAP.
Update: We're getting drunk and watching anime.
Should I at all costs just avoid saying anything rash to be safe?
>>17264463
>without risking the friendship
Have you ever heard the term "high risk, high reward"?
After hanging out the next day you could say something like "I had a lot of fun last night, id like to take you out on a date" and make sure you say date because sometimes girls can be even more oblivious than guys.
>>17264502
Lol nice
>>17265945
How about you read the situation and play it by ear you autistic fuck
Last update: I asked her out. She said "yeah...?" And I had to clairify it was on a date. She said "totally, but you've gotta ask me when we're sober or else I won't think you're being serious."
Even if for some reason she changes her mind, I wanna thank all the anons in this thread. I've never had the balls to ask a girl out, let alone a cute one. Even >>17266050 motivated me to get a pair and face my worst fears.You guys have always been helpful when I've been in need and this is no exception.
Thanks you wonderful faggots.
>>17266513
>I asked her out
Well done anon!
>>17266513
>I asked her out
Good job OP. Hope you find happiness.
>>17264546
>>17264547
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>>17264582
>being this bluepilled.
what the fuck is going on with you fucks?
>OP asks cute grill on date
>Grill says yes
Fake and gay
>>17266640
Seriously wtf? Anyways nice job OP
