Quick Q:
Absolutely in love with this girl. Great match, lots of shared interests, lots of passion, very intimidate, sex is great, similar life goals, admire each other, love spending time together.
The problem is that she is VERY volatile. Mood all over the place, withholds a lot, easily gets upset and dwells on the negative. Her emotional lability is very draining. She makes me happy but she wears me out. I would go so far as to say that she destabilizes me.
Thoughts? End it? Stick it out? I love her tremendously, but she can totally shit on my day with how unpredictable she is.
>>17257712
*intimate, lel
Bad news or worth it? I feel like this is a common concern.
Well, each relationship has its own standing and the amount of worth that needs to be sacrificed in other for each person to be sustained within.
Are you two living with each other?
How long have you two been together?
>>17257768
Living together? No.
Time? Friends for 4 years, together 2 months.
Hit it and quit it. She sounds like the perfect fling for a few thrilling months, but a miserable choice for a life-long commitment.
>>17257770
Okay, so it seems your somewhat situated in whatever life pursuit (I hate to assume that)
What is her big let down? Childhood stuff, work, school?
>>17257770
Going off of the time you've spent together, you're pretty much in the clear, 2 months is really nothing if even to be called a relationship.
However, being that you've been friends for 4 years_ it's a bit more complicated to just distance yourself entirely from the (general) relationship.
I'm assuming that it's bad mojo to stay with someone who is emotionally exhausting?
>>17258074
It's extremely exhausting, Anon.
I have been in a similar relationship, in the end it was not worth it.
We had a lot of good times; the sex was great, and we had much in common, but the bad times outweighed that.
Rather break it up and spare yourself the heartache.
Good luck to you!
