Interaction Tips
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ITT: Post your best tips for human interactions
Lets start off with a list of 192
http://modernmachiavelli.com/psychological-manipulation-techniques/
>>17254479
Some of that is really cringy...
Interact with people.
>>17254478
Be polite. Take an interest in people who take an interest in you.
Try to smile when you first see/meet someone.
Try finding some common ground. Are you both into the nightlife scene? Does this group of people have strong opinions about Asian delicacies. Does this person feel the same way about Donald trump as I do?
Try to avoid unsavoury things and topics like abortions, murders, deaths, breakups, prostitutes, drugs, and others which might make people uncomfortable for whatever reason.
lookup mirroring, that shit is just ridiculously powerful and most people aren't even aware of it
>>17254549
This... avoid questionable subjects at all costs unless you KNOW they're comfortable. Knowing what not to say is half the battle. Knowing how to say it is the other half.
>>17254562
Oh I know, just unaware of to what extent.
A lot of the "lesser known" stuff is very appealing to me, since I'm working on designing a model for social engineering / discourse practices. I want to eventually streamline some of this stuff into infographs, models, etc.
If you know of any other techniques that you've practiced and had a powerful impact - do post.
Maybe with a little story or example to add more depth.
>>17254574
try https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCU_W0oE_ock8bWKjALiGs8Q
Shit, this is my thread... But i'm driving atm. Can you make one on adv too so it doesn't close so fast?
>>17254589
I can normally just tab out and have a video running while solely listening to its audio
This guy makes it difficult and I'm not a faggot. Good gesturing and matching RSVP (rhythm, speed, volume, pitch), I can tell he's well-learned.
Either include yourself into the topics being discussed, or don't. It's your choice, but not talking for too long is sort of weird. Not terribly so, but it's unsettling for some.
If it becomes an awkward silence among the group then it's time to change the topic.
Let's say you were talking with friends about Florida, and there's a silence that falls. Start a new discussion by asking where they'd like to travel to.(obviously besides Florida)
