I am curious. I am 26 and sexless and have not had a relationship. I notice a lot of my friends have had sex and relationships and seem happy. I however, am super bitter and angry.
I hate that I can't attract a female. Female attraction is so fickle. I need help.
I sometimes feel as if my health is far worse than it seems. Self esteem is shit. Confidence is shit. Ego is fragile. Help
Being bitter and angry will drive them away.
Also come to terms with the fact that you still have 40+ years left to get laid and sex isnt the be all and end all of life
>>17254421
It's not just the sex. It honestly feels like if you get to your mid 30s and had no sex... You are fucked. Probably means you have no kids too. I basically feel like I am old and have done nothing. Despite being only 26.
>>17254417
This but 25
Yeah same here. Turning 22 soon and KV. Women seem like some unattainable creatures to me and not human. I knows its sad but its true. To make it worse, I don't know how to fix this. If ur skinny, pick up a heavy object and put it down, and eat - straightforward. If your grades are bad - open a book and do questions - straightforward. If you're bad with girls - ???
>>17254501
If you're bad with girls, talk to them - straightforward.
How do you get good at things? You fucking practice. Just try talking a lot with girls and it will come naturally
>>17254501
If you're bad with girls get more exposure.
One does not simply life heavy things and put them back down. You learn how to correct your posture, how to improve your diet for your workout needs, and how to do exercises properly and efficiently. You also learn about different things and people loosely related to picking up heavy things and putting them back down.
One dose not simply become a great intellect. That's a timeless endeavour. It involves knowing what's affecting you both locally and foreign. It also involves lots of reading, breaking down information, and practising to use that information when it's needed.
Its not simple, but it's not complicated either. I mean I'm illiterate af, but because of that I've learned 11 new words in the past three days. If you're lacking in social connection then do something proactive about it.
>>17254417
It's all about you.
I'm the same way but I'm happy. My confidence is usually around 80-90%.
Yeah I get lonely but then I read threads on here about guys getting fucked over by women or their gf's cheating on them and I don't fee so bad.
>>17254522
Not him but I did that once
She reported me to the campus police cause she thought I was a homeless vagrant that wandered in
>>17254417
>>17254569
This happens a lot. Apparently I have a creep aura. Women just arbitrarily find things creepy it seems.
>>17254417
Your bitterness is more a personality thing than a lack of relationship thing. I've been single my whole life (I'm 24) and am pretty happy with keeping busy with my hobbies, my dog and my family/friends. Love will happen when you least expect it.
>>17254614
>Love will happen when you least expect it.
Real life isn't a fairy tale. It's possible that all the single men here will remain that way until the day they die. Reality isn't obligated to set a date up for you eventually.
>>17254713
If you are reasonably attractive and have your life together and spend a fair amount of time in social situations where you meet people... then the odds are high that you will find someone.
If you do nothing but whine in your parents' basement all day... then yes, you will be single forever.
>>17254713
Ok so maybe you might remain single your whole life because you choose the single life. Though if you don't like being single you have to settle for someone eventually. You can still find love in other forms like a career, friendship, having nephews and nieces, being active in your local community. You don't have romance to have love.
>What can the lack of sex and relationships do to you?
Not much. Bitterness, envy, FOMO: these things can mess you up but good. But it is how you react to your failures with women that matters, not the failures themselves.
Are hookers a good replacement for girlfriends?
I'm 23 kissless.
I'm getting a hooker next week.
I spent the last 5 years of my life studying and wasted the previus ones. I want to end it all.
I know this won't solve my problems. My problems lay in childhood. Even in my first memories at kindergarden, I was a social outcast and I don't fucking know why.
I may blame the circumstances in which I was risen, but deep in my mind I know that I am the problem.
In less than one year I will have my Engineering Masters Degree and I'm moving to another country. This will be my final test. If I'm not even marginaly happier after that, I don't know If I can cotinue with this.
, >>17254838
Yes and no. If you really think about it everyone pays for sex. You prob break even with a normal girl vs hooker depending on where you live. They are great for your confidence and experience. Not to mention the women are amazingly hot. Way better than you will ever get by dating most likely.
The no part comes in from long term use. Some people confuse to it for actual love if they get the same escorts everytime. Or they may become hyper sensitive to the fact that's it's not real and get depressed about it.
So my advice is get an escorts for your first 1-10 times to get used to being with a women and get that confidence boost and ignore what society tells you to think about it. All women cost money regardless.
