>>17250560

Expect it to be awkward, expect to be nervous, expect the possibility of not being able to get it up or keep it up, expect to have no idea if you're doing it right, expect to spend time afterward wondering how the whole world can seem bent on sex.

But you'll get more comfortable with it, and it'll get better, and then once you've had really good sex, you'll absolutely get how the whole world can get a little bent on sex.

>>17250560
Like most new experience, it's silly to go into it with expectation.

I didn't lose my virginity till I was 23. I had been nervous about the prospect of sex for years and worried about awkwardness and all that through most of adolescence. But by my early 20s, I was essentially a grown man and was just kind of pissed about still being a virgin at that age. That bitterness about it and the urge to just fucking do it already really overrode any butterflies when it finally went down. I'd been watching porn since I was like 14 and honestly just felt very comfortable that I'd seen it done enough that it wasn't like I didn't have some semblance of how to do it properly.

The other thing was that I felt EXTREMELY comfortable with sex the first time. I'm an awkward wreck approaching women, but something about being naked alone in a room just seemed very honest and secure to me. There was just a really strong sense that if it had gotten to that point that she was obviously into me, and I think my fear has always been mostly about rejection. I didn't even cum the first time and the girl went around telling all her friends about how awesome I was in the sack.

You just never know.

>>17250560

You'll be anxious and nervous, like everyone else. Especially if you are pushing for that goal.
As much as you don't wanna hear "it'll happen when it happens", that's what will give you the best experiences.

Assuming you mean hetero sex: it's important to remember you aren't sticking your dick in a hole in the ground. It's hot, it's drenched in mucus and it's a dense grouping of muscles. The pussy will eat your dick IF YOU GET THAT PUSSY PURRING FIRST. Eat it, finger it, sweet talk it (seriously, just a little), whatever. And not just the vag, treat her like a goddess and she'll beg for D. Google "erogenous zones" and try kiss and touch all of them.

PORN DOES NOT DEMONSTRATE ACTUAL SEXUAL ACTIVITY.
PORN IS SOLELY FOR THE CAVEMEN IN US TO BEAT OUR CHEST.

Keep in mind that sex is the original activity. People degenerate into subhumans during sex. Go with it. Bark at the moon. Make her howl with your pack !

BUT IF WERE TALKING GAY SEX???

It's pretty much like gay porn.

So get in shape.

>>17251305
>PORN DOES NOT DEMONSTRATE ACTUAL SEXUAL ACTIVITY.

Have you just never watched amateur porn?

all these people talk about awkward or whatever. My first time was a blast, realistically, you'll probably have a good time because it's all new to you. Maybe even more because your partner will likely be experienced. there are so many little nuances you'll discovered that you never pictured when you imagined sex. you'll feel really good about yourself, the basics aren't that hard. it's only later you'll realize how much you suck at sex.

and you might not be able to cum if you've been death gripping it multiple times a day and you're using condoms. after 15 minutes of coitus, it would be common courtesy to pull out and jerk off onto them.

good sex usually involves a lot of talking, so talk a lot.

>>17250560
Unless its her first time too, just fuck the shit out of her. You gotta like her though, the actual act isn't that great, its more about who you're with.