Hey guys, I need some relationship advice; not the usual stuff either.
I have a girlfriend, she's great, wonderful, just about everything about her is amazing; I love talking with her and we have very similar tastes, and she is absolutely head over heels for me to boot.
There's one problem:
I'm not sexually attracted to her in the slightest.
One one bit.
It has nothing to do with her weight or appearance, as she looks absolutely gorgeous, it's just her body, she is the exact OPPOSITE of everything I like in a woman and before we get frisky I nearly punch myself in the dick just to be able to get it up for her.
Just from her body type it would be very hard to fix. You can't exactly alter the very shape your bones take, you know? I really do care for her very deeply and she is wonderful in every other way, so I don't want to break up with her over this, especially considering it's not her fault.
What the hell do I do?
How did you even get to the relationship stage with her?
>>17250348
We began talking over mutual interests and clicked very quickly and easily with eachother. I didn't see her naked until we were already IN a relationship.
Has there been any anal sex involved?
What exactly about her body isn't attractive/isn't your type?
>>17250350
That doesn't make any sense - what is it that you're attracted to that she doesn't have that you can't see when she's clothed?
>>17250356
Not yet
>>17250359
She has an almost a-cup and they are a bit unshapely (I much favour large breasts), she has a flat ass (I like them large), a very 'box' figure and not curvy at all, and pretty poor thighs too.
There is nothing about her body I actually find sexy.
>>17250360
We're on 4chan, surely we have both seen enough porn to know that women can look very different when they take off their clothes.
>>17250370
How did you not see that before you saw her naked? Pretty much all of that is visible when you're clothed (only real exception is if she was wearing a pushup bra)
>>17250372
I think you're overplaying how easy and common this is.
>>17250387
I thought her breasts were bigger and her clothing accented her curves enough. I knew her ass was flat but figured I could deal with that, but the rest was a surprise. Maybe I didn't, I don't know, maybe I knew all the time and figured her personality would offset it but my dick doesn't care about that. Either way, it's something that troubles me and I can only bring to you guys.
I don't mean to sound ungrateful, it's just stressful and I feel like a piece of shit over it.
