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2016-06-10 18:07:56 Post No. 17241690
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 18:07:56 Post No. 17241690 [Report]
How do I loosen up and relax in social situations? I rarely feel at ease talking to people, though I get better once I really know them but even then, I'm not completely relaxed. I could never have a conversation with a cashier like people always do in front of me in the queue (admittedly, they're invariably older)

Sometimes I talk louder and laugh more to help myself, but I probably come off as a fake faggot. What do?
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 19:20:25 Post No.17241871
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 19:20:25 Post No.17241871 [Report]
You have social anxiety. Go see a psychologist.
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:36:21 Post No.17242086
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:36:21 Post No.17242086 [Report]
>>17241690
Let me ask you OP, What have you got to lose?
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:38:26 Post No.17242093
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:38:26 Post No.17242093 [Report]
>>17241690
>How do I loosen up and relax in social situations?
Pull your dick
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:39:27 Post No.17242096
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:39:27 Post No.17242096 [Report]
>>17242093
*out
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:42:51 Post No.17242106
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:42:51 Post No.17242106 [Report]
>>17242086

This. You have to convince yourself the stakes aren't that high. The worst that can happen is that you come off a little awkward. As long as you're not being outright offensive, people might even find your quirks/idiosyncracies to be charming. Or, they won't, and it still doesn't matter. People who are comfortable in social situations are people who are comfortable with who they are - flaws and all
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:53:53 Post No.17242138
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Anonymous 2016-06-10 20:53:53 Post No.17242138 [Report]
>>17241871
>implying that ever helped anyone
psychologist detected
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