My boyfriend left his laptop at my apartment and for some fucking reason I decided to go through his Chrome tabs. (He's fucking retarded and doesn't close his tabs.)
Not only do I hate myself for doing that but, I saw fap material and I feel like shit, how do I undo this?
>>17238006
So? Who doesn't fap? Unless he was fapping to Loli, I wouldn't worry.
>>17238006
Tell him what you did and make it up to him with a sex act you normally wouldn't do. Personally, I've always wanted to fuck a girl in the ass, but if contrition is your thing then get a riding crop and handcuffs and tell him how sorry you are and how much you need to be punished.
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>>17238018
well it's just like it seems his thing is especially fit girls, and I'm not that.
I'm worried he doesn't actually find me attractive.
>>17238006
Looks like you'll have to suck his dick twice as often to keep him from fapping.
>>17238023
I get off to all kinds of shit that isn't my gf and it doesn't make any difference - I still find her very attractive. It's just porn. Why not talk about it instead of feeling guilty?
>>17238022
Well, even if he does find you attractive, he will be bored with you soon anyway, that's how men are
>>17238036
I think he'll be mad that I went through his tabs though.
>>17238022
As opposed to what? Looking up porn featuring nothing but fatties?
>>17238038
Lol, sooo sorry for your experiences.
>some men and women are like that
Corrected
>>17238043
but it was like specifically that.
>>17238022
Of course fit girls are ideal, but that doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive. If you're trying to beat your dick, you're gonna try to find the best looking girl.
My girlfriend is chunky and I find her extremely attractive, yet I only masturbate to petite girls. Don't worry about it.
>>17238050
Well then, maybe you should start taking better care of yourself. Get fit.
>>17238022
Get fit? You don't really need to say anything to him, or worry about it.
It's understandable that you are upset about it, but men will watch things and get off to things they wouldn't do in real life, or just as some minor fantasy (I know from experience).
I was with my ex for 5 years, and jacked off fairly regularly to ebony and latina porn even though she was white, but that had nothing to do with my feelings for her.
Good luck, just be calm and don't make any wild assumptions.
My girl caught some of my boner jamz once.
She cried for a week, and hates black girls that twerk now.
I remember one time, we were at the store, and this 10/10 black woman is about to come walking by, and I can tell from my peripheral glance before this booty was about to be the greatest thing I've ever seen. Jiggling just right in those yoga pants, of my god, I was about to cream at the idea of this ass walking in front of us, and being able to look with no consequences because it's about to be directly in front of our walking direction...
And, she grabs me, and makes me lock eye contact with her.. For the entire duration that ass would've been in my view.
Oh well, I love her, and seeing some amazing black booty is something I can always do on the internet when she's not around. But, damn do I feel like I missed out on that one.
>>17238051
Sorta the same. My gf is chunky too and I fab to chunky still
Don't hate yourself, you didn't harm anyone. If you feel like shit, fap to the material.
>>17238022
Kek, he's playing you. He left those tabs open on purpose so you would see them and get in shape
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>>17238063
Oddly enough, I'm brown and thick and his fap material was fit and white.
He's Chinese.
>>17238022
Men have a variety of tastes. Sometimes I'm really digging fit girls, sometimes I really want slightly chubby girls.
No reason to feel threatened. If it was that important to him he would have already left you.
>>17238074
My girl is fit and white, maybe we can swap sometime?
>>17238040
Probably, thus the apologetic sex act. As far as his taste in porn, don't sweat it. We jerk off to all sorts of shit. I yank it to bondage and cartoons, my girlfriend doesn't want to be tied up and isn't an anime character. Not gonna stop me nutting in her mouth in a few hours. Hell, I'm really thinking about a life with her.
Porn is just porn. The breach of trust is the real issue here. Take your guilty feelings as a lesson not to do that shit in the future, apologize with kinky sex and don't due it again.
>>17238079
Should I tell him?
Are women so insecure as to be envious of porn?
>>17238074
>his fap material was fit and white.He's Chinese.
lel all the ethnics want white girls
>>17238094
Yes. They need to be the only things we find sexually attractive ever. It's OK if they oogle Ryan Gosling though.
>>17238091
Tell him you went through his privacy?
Not the best idea
>>17238074
Mmmmm, thick and brown...
But yes, don't worry about it. Some straight men even jack off to twink/gay/scat porn. Now THAT would be very concerning
>>17238098
I had a few ex's that stormed my laptop porn and forced me to delete my collection. Was a sad day.
>>17238091
Idk how he is, but I'd find it cute and adoring that you're concerned over my private porn. I'd slam her right then and there
>>17238113
You shouldn't have compromised anon. That's probably why they're ex's, you were weak and spineless.
>>17238117
I think I'll tell him, I hate keeping secrets like that.
>>17238094
Of course. They want to be the only thing their partner can fap to. How else are they supposed to hold the fantasy that they will have a rewarding relationship forever with zero effort?
Apologize for snooping around and offer to let him look at your porn in exchange.
>>17238124
I'd honestly appreciate the honesty. I'm guilty myself of checking her phone, and so is she on my phone. Let's me know we are protective and have a healthy amount of jealousy and understanding. I don't think you did anything wrong anyways, in his shoes, you coulda just been checking out "my" tabs to google something quickly
>>17238137
I don't look at porn.
>>17238145
I recommend it. Porn is pretty great.
>>17238153
Other people fucking doesn't really do it for me
>>17238153
Its true. Porn has allowed me to know what actual good looking people look like so that when the stupid chucklefucks on this board post their girlfriends raving about them being 9s or 10s I can just laugh. They're clearly, at best, maybe 5s or 6s if I'm really feeling generous.
>>17238094
Some women. More and more are watching porn on their own, so they understand that it's not a big deal.
>>17238153
>I recommend it. Porn is pretty great.
For porn.
>>17238162
You know, you could be looking at an amateur video featuring everyday people you could see in the street and it would still be pornographic material by definition. Porn only reveals what you want to see. You're just elitist and therefore your porn of choice happens to be elitist. It doesn't have anything to do with other's perception of average attractiveness being wrong or yours being right.
>>17238113
That's sad. The only time I've ever felt uncomfortable was when my ex was seeking out and saving pictures of girls we know in real life, including my own family.
>>17238179
Yeah fuck that, I think 99.99% of porn watchers will agree that keeping pictures of friends (AND FAMILY) for smutty purposes is way over the line.
>>17238160
You'll get over that, once you find "your thing." I don't really like other people fucking either, but when I find someone that looks like my guy? It's awesome.
>>17238006
Some people fetishize being raped by horses, go at it in full rubber suits or getting castrated, that doesn't mean that they would actually find it attractive in person while for them it would be fun to watch.
You will just have to trust him and believe in his love for you, it's not only about sex and i bet ,you can give him a great time.
Besides that, the majority of porn has fit girls, meaning that it's not worth it to actually enter tubby to everytime he searches, also porn shouldn't act as in replacing you, so it would be awkward if he searches for woman who look like you. Then again nobody would go through the trouble.
One more thing, the more he watches it, the more he craves you anyways.
>>17238177
I've been viewing and fapping to all levels and manners of porn for 15 years. I've seen the gambit from ugly normal girls to banging hot 10/10 goddesses. You can think your fugly girlfriend is 9/10 hot because that's the best you could do but you'd still be objectively wrong. It's OK, anon, I'm not here to hurt your fee fees
>>17238200
Porn still have nothing to do with whether you have a better evaluation of average attractiveness than other people, tho.
>>17238214
If the only women you've seen are average women you're going to think those average women are much better than what they are.
>>17238217
It's true. A limited selection sample means a limited comparison. It still has nothing to do with porn since it is not the only way to sample attractiveness. People can see attractive people anywhere and therefore they can develop a correct measure of general attractiveness evenly spaced on a progressive scale. I don't see why you bring porn into this. The sentence "I fapped to people more attractive than your partner so she's ugly" has zero argumentative value. It means nothing other than you're a moron..
>>17238231
You're trolling at this point. Not only is my sample size massively larger thanks to porn, the quality of the participants in porn are often higher than what you'd usually see normally. Your assertion about ones girlfriend and the women you fap to on porn is actually correct even though you were being facetious. Relative to the much more attractive individuals in porn she is ugly.
Its OK, you just wanted to call me a moron. Now run along to your fugly girlfriend so you can feel better about yourself.
As a guy who's been in the position that your boyfriend is in right now.
Baby, don't be so insecure, I love you for who you are. Porn is just me getting wanting to jerk it, maybe you could try a sexy outfit for me? When was the last time we did something kinky?
You're mine for a reason. Don't change.
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>>17238094
If you found tons of naked pics of buff muscular body builder dudes on your GF's computer, wouldn't you be bothered.
>>17238404
thats gold nigga! thanks!
