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i get horribly uncomfortable watching people be intimate with one another in movies and tv shows. this includes everything from kissing to fucking. i normally look away and wait for it to end and have done that since i can remember but i feel like somethings wrong with me.

and advice with this?
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I cry instead because I envy those moments
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>>17231476
I go through this a bit too. I hate when sex scenes get in the road of story and I just look at my phone or PC and try to ignore it until the story starts back up.

My gf is pretty much the same. We like our own intimacy, but seeing others doesn't do anything for us.
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>>17231476
I'm much the same. Porn is fine, but when there's a sex scene in something like GoT it's like "is this really fucking necessary?".
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>>17231476
I know that feel, OP. It's difficult watching people be that passionate with each other because it reminds me of my inability to do so. The sex scenes in TV are fine though because Im always down to see attractive naked women.
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>>17231476
yea

because i know i'll never have anything like that

i'm just one of those guys who never finds a partner or has children

hurts desu
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>>17231476
Nah I do it too. A lesbian couple thought I was disgusted at their "gayness" and I was like "Noo pls, its just anyones mouths touching that grosses me out!"
Im a grown woman with a boyfriend. But we dont like showing affection in front of other people. So it works out nicely.
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>>17231570
GoT is the worst. I absolutely refuse to watch it because of all the needless nudity (and to a lesser extent, murder) that gets in the way of anything interesting actually happen.

Did the dragons and shit actually arrive yet, how many seasons in? Christ.
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>>17231476
you have intimacy issues, i have the same thing. even if you're in a relationship, if you're not comfortable showing yourself being intimate stop and think about why that is. are you really worried about it or is it because it's what you feel society would expect?

may sound lame and cliche, but realizing that i was projecting others ideals onto my concept of intimacy was the only thing that let me finally be okay with it.
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>>17231741
>triggered by nudity

Fucking fags kek
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>>17231751
When nudity literally gets in the road of actual story, it's porn, and I have the internet for porn. I watch tv for story.

I watch what I am in the mood for. And if I am watching tv with my gf, I am even less in the mood for random porn - if we were in the mood for shit, we wouldn't be watching tv.
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>>17231792
what a low test fag you must be

I bet you are voting Democrat
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>>17231792
Because there's no way women would ever enjoy sex or nudity. Nope! Impossible!
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>>17231799
Projecting much? Seriously, I cbf with nudes when I am in the mood for tv, thats not gay, its just someone who likes to separate sex from relaxation (not that sex isn't relaxing, but it's a different kind.)

But your obsession with gays is fascinating, tell me more. Have you considered coming out of that closet?

>>17231805
We have discussed it, and we feel the same. If we are in the mood for sex, we clearly aren't watching tv, so the reverse is true as well for us.
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>>17231799
>he actually wants everything to turn into a lukewarm porn fest
You are the cancer that's killing entertainment.
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>>17231792
i totally agree. Ive really become disillusioned with GoT ever since they departed from the books by having a whole house of women be raped with no gain for the story. its the same shit as the walking dead, just a soap opera with violence sprinkled in.

sex in film is so formulaic. its refreshing when movies like Her and Blue Valentine shows sex truthfully, even if sometimes its hard to watch for that truthfulness its by far more substantial.
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