I "manipulate".
I make people feel bad for shit they didn't actually do that involves me. Somehow I fuck up my personal relationships by guilt tripping (or manipulating) others. How do I fix this shit, guys?
Realise ur doing it and control urself
>>17229008
You clearly know when you're doing it. So stop doing it. When you notice yourself starting to be an asshole, stop being an asshole.
>>17229008
Channel that ability into your career and use it to climb the ladder.
Or just stop fucking doing it
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>>17229170
These people have the right idea. Just fucking stop, OP.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aAhA7KfbJgg
It's that simple. There is no magic cure. It's like with weight loss, to lose weight you just have to spend fewer calories than you take in. With manipulation you have to catch yourself doing it and use the guilt you have for doing this to motivate yourself to change. I've been in your situation, the only way to change it is to catch yourself and stop. Know that you'll be a shitty person if you don't stop. No quick fixes.
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>>17229133
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>>17229178
Thank you.
I figured it was that simple -- it helps to hear it from other people. I appreciate you guys.
>>17229178
>it's like weight loss
>spend fewer calories than you take in
I think you mean weight gain, bro. Unless there's something I'm missing.
