>>17215402
Interesting. I'm a lesbian and sometimes I feel emotionally attracted to guys - but never sexually. If a gay guy had a crush on me, I would be interested in how that works.

Is your crush on her different from your crushes on men?

I don't know how to help you. I think it's very unfortunate that you're in this situation. I did not have a feminine personality as a small child myself, but I reconcile because I know my role is to bear children and find a male so I do my job and accept my God-given body.

But it's too late for me to tell you anything about that.

She MIGHT be okay with it if she develops heterosexual feelings for you, but if you want her to, I think you should guide her into those feelings. In other words, act like a male would as his role to a female. But don't let her know you like her straight away! Let it simmer, let her pop up a thought of being your girl before she prickles it as nonsense. Give it time.

However, it could really depend on what kind of girl she is. For example, I'd never touch a white man who has dated Asians or anyone that's not white because that is repulsive to me and it's not something I can negotiate. You can always try, though.

>>17215435
It's different yeah. She's really good looking, but it's not like i haven't seen better looking women than her. I just found myself looking at her a lot, her curves, her legs. It was sexual attraction at first but after getting to know her more, I actually like her. I'm really confused and a little scared at the same time.

>>17215446

At what age did you come out of the closet?

>>17215466
My told my parents I didn't like girls when I was like 7. Came out to everyone in 8th grade.

>>17215402
>So I just have the biggest crush on a girl, and I'm gay
that's pretty gay

Well sexual orientation is way more complex than "i'm straight/bi/gay".

In fact you're not straight or bi or gay, you're just attracted to this girl (and girls in general apparently) as of right now.

Just don't worry about it, it's totally fine. It's just a good occasion to try something new for you.

What's your relationship with this girl ? Do you think there's a chance to have sex with her ?
If so, go for it dude.

>>17215532
She's a friend of a friend. We all started hanging out a lot recently. I don't know if there's any chance because she probably knows I'm gay. And I don't know if attracting a girl is the same as a dude. I have no idea how :( I just really want to fuck her

>>17215589

Her knowing you're gay isn't necessarily a dealbreaker if she's okay with dating a guy who also likes men. All it means is there'll be a little extra explanation.

And if you want to play it off, the fact that you're a stereotypical gay dude might work in your favour if you say you're bi but everyone assumes you're gay because of how you act.
Not that I like dishonesty, I'm just saying it's an angle.
Might not even come to that, she might connect that dot herself and feel like it was her own false assumption.

>>17215402
>I have no idea what's going on. I've never had this happen before, ever.
Out-of-orientation attractions do happen sometimes. Kinsey believed that most people, straight ot gay, experience at least one or two over the course of their lives.

In other words, don't worry. You're still gay. If this starts happening with any frequency, THEN it may be time to reconsider some labels. But for one in a lifetime, no.

>>17215589
Honestly, this might come off the wrong way but I think (and personally would agree) that many women would find the idea of being the first woman for a gay man arousing. You know that everything's new, you're showing them a different flavor of intimacy, and while normally it might be a bummer if a man is a bit weirded out by female wiring/bits, it feels less personal if you know that the guy involved is plainly way more into men.

Do you ever talk about sex with her, like those tipsy conversations with friends where you sense a bit of tension and don't know if it's mutual? If so, try throwing out there that for the first time in your life, you've started wondering about having sex with a woman. If she responds positively (interested, asking questions, asking if you have a specific person in mind) bring up that you hope that confessing this won't stand in the way of your friendship, but you find her incredibly attractive out of left field and really like the idea of feeling her body etc. If you ever get drunk together, go all in so that if she rejects the idea, you can play it off as drunken experimental thoughts with some credibility.

At least, this is the course I'd take. Good luck!!

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>>17215441
>For example, I'd never touch a white man who has dated Asians or anyone that's not white because that is repulsive to me and it's not something I can negotiate with

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>>17215857
Your body is just red-pilling itself against your mental illness to think you're attracted to dudes.

You are actually in a great position anon, you have so many ways to do this. You can say "I've never kissed a girl before and want to know what its like" or "I've never touched a pussy before and I want to know what it feels like, can I please touch your pussy?"

>>17215402
>Liking a girl
>gay
Lol faggot.

it's almost as if you were programmed to do so.............weird......... makes u think..............................

>>17215867
But I feel so weird doing so. I never talked to a girl in any other way other than platonic. I've always heard women are confusing. I don't want to tell her I'm gay just so she can let me do that stuff. I want to do it on my own.
>>17215824
I don't really know. I started looking at women and lesbian/straight porn and I've never been turned on more than this. I genuinely feel like I want to fuck some pussy and suck on some tits. It's really scary to me because I never thought this way before, it's like a switch just switched in my brain. No other way I can put it.