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I was meeting an old guy 42 y/o (I'm 33) for 1 month. then
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I was meeting an old guy 42 y/o (I'm 33) for 1 month. then my ex bfc alled him and threatened him. Since then he blocked me from everywhere: Facebook, whatsapp, callings and sms. I still want to be with him. he just ignores me since 1 month. I called him by another phone and he was very unpolite. I really dont know what to do. Will he come back?
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I called him many times, he had blocked me from whatsapp, then i sent a lot of sms and he blocked my sms as well
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>>17207349
Fuck that guy if he is such a pussy that h gets scared of your ex why the fuck do you want him?
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>>17207354
I just still want him! oh shit
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>>17207354
Because I'm dumb. You're right. but i cant forget him
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>>17207362
No your a dumb bitch how does your ex even know about the guy.
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>>17207358
You just want what you can't have of he would be all over you you would think ghoo what a wimp
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>>17207376
I dont know how, that motherfucker found his mobile number and my ex thought i gave him the number.
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>>17207379
I really like him and was trying to work it out
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>>17207402
whats wrong?
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>>17207392
Tja i think you missed your chanse i can give you my advice, first make sure that your ex don't fucks up your personal live never again. Second look for a guy who not a total pussy
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>>17207411
you dont know how I hate that motherfucker.
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>>17207409
what country are you from? i bet you're french.
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>>17207418
Brazil
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>>17207416
No i don't but that's somthing you need to take care of. Because if you finde the next guy you like he will do the same
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>>17207362
Your ex is a maniac, the old fart is a pussy. You have one of that, so don't look for another. Look for a man, you're not 16 anymore, you should know this.
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>>17207421
close enough. romance language speaking shitskin niggers can't into the glory of the germanic master race languages.
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>>17207422
you're right!
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>>17207424
this is very relevant since Im upset about my beloved one
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>>17207431
fuck off monkeyniggress
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>>17207423
do you think he would come back?
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>>17207434
do you have small dick?
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>>17207435
Nope, and good riddance.
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>>17207438
why not?
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>>17207444
Because he's a pussy. Pussies freeze at the first sign of complication, then run.
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>>17207450
I see. thanks
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>>17207453
Seriously, why would he put up with a mad ex? That's a huge red flag. Only if your ex is an easy to handle weak fag is it worth to invest energy into a relationship like this.
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>>17207460
because of me, not my ex. If my ex is the reason it could be senseless... Im worthy
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>>17207460
it is easier for you, you dont like me... you have no feelings... dont be dumb. try to figure this shit out like a person who has feeling
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>>17207468
No, you're not. You're a package and your ex is part of it. It's like dating a single mom. You can't ignore the kid.
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>>17207473
Im good for him, I have no kids (he has), Im pretty and he is ugly. lol
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>>17207473
Im very nice, it's my fault... If i was treating him like a shit, he would give some value. you guys only like bad girls
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>>17207472
I get it, you love him. You said he cut contact and was unpolite. I just explained it why. Don't accuse me with a lack of feelings when I just explain the feelingless behavior of him. At 42 men want peace, not complications.
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>>17207479
His exes were such a bitches. everybody said that Im a keeper.
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>>17207478
That's bs. If your ex didn't want to cut his throat he would want a relationship with you, it has nothing to do with niceness.

>>17207476
He's 42 at that age priorities shift. He wants a good mother for his children and a peaceful life, not hot pussy, at least not for a serious relationship.
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>>17207479
I really think that I was very nice and polite, no guys would appreciate this. that was my mistake. I will start to be such a @#$# to guys
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>>17207485
I took care of his house, his stuffs... he doenst think Im a hot pussy. he didnt asked me sex
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>>17207481
>>17207487
You were a keeper until your ex fucked it up. If you are a bitch to guys you will have to put the bar even lower and find an even bigger pussy to put up with your bs. Don't.
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>>17207485
he thinks i'm good woman, because I'm good woman. He also said he doesnt deserve me.
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>>17207496
What did he tell you after you called him?
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>>17207494
He said he wanted to have kids and so do I.
he doesnt think Im a hot pussy... my ex got what he wanted... I'm so sorry for what my ex did to my beloved. I called my beloved and tried to apologize,
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>>17207498
I called several times. First I said I didnt give to the ex your number. he said nothing about it. Then I said we could be friends, we could have a conversation. He said he didnt want hire a lower and go to the police. He said now i cant i hanging out with friend, maybe another day. then he blocked my callings
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>>17207499
What did HE tell you?
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>>17207506
You blew it, it's over. There is nothing you can do.
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I called him again after 1.5 week and asked him to give me back my stuffs which is in his house. he was unpolite and said: there is only a toothbrush. I said it's ok, bye!
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>>17207510
Yes, it is true! It's sad but true! I'm good person. I really didnt want that shit which happened. but I have nothing to do. At least I have tried.
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>>17207510
I feel misarable because my ex maniac was so mean... he got what he wanted.I will never talk to him again.
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You need to prove to this man he is your world, start sending him flowers at work and buying him gifts just so you can randomly show up and suprise him. Men really like it if you just show up at there house in the middle of the night in your Pajamas, it hints that you are going to stay the night without saying it. Now you mentioned he said he wants kids, maybe you can get pregnant or pretend and say that it is his child, in 2 months from now oh no you miscarried... Just do it sista!
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>>17207528
yes! they love it. they love bitches who dont give a fuck
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>>17207528
thanks for irony. I see your point. Actually I'm good woman, he is not a big deal, that is what his friends said a lot. So I dont have to be worry. I will find someone better and be thankfull for what happened.
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if he doesnt think you re a hot pussy , he doesnt want you , simple as that
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>>17207540
>33 single
Why are you good woman?
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>>17207566
yes, Im not a hot pussy because Im nice. simple as that, if i was humiliating him he could love me
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>>17207589
This is bs. You confuse men with women.
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>>17207586
This. Nothing about your circumstances makes you seem worth the least bit of drama. You should be past this stage of your life you spinster.
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>>17207586
Because I do respect everyone. I dont cheat. Im honest person. I usually try to do what is right. I helped him to take care of his house. cooked for him etc.
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>>17207593
Interesting. Why it seems im not worth? explain me pls
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>>17207595
Then why aren't you married happily and a mother of 3 for 5 years?
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>>17207599
wrong choices maybe. something which you kid cant understand. you only see things by the surface as your question... no deep thoughts
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>>17207604
I'm 29. What I know is that all of my peers, me included who weren't huge whores or psycho bitches are married.
For some reason you aren't at 33. Add this up.
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>>17207590
why do i confuse them?
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>>17207618
Marriage is a big deal for you, then get married
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>>17207598
Post pics of yourself
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>>17207620
Because women want to be ruled over and humiliated. If you are kind with them they cheat on you with someone who humiliates them.
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>>17207629
I think the same about men
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>>17207627
I am and I'm happy, you are not. You need to change something about yourself to achieve happiness.
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>>17207639
yes. You're right. thanks for the advice!
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>>17207636
Yet men who know this are having happy relationships and you are not. With this behavior you will only catch a beta provider but that won't make you happy.
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>>17207628
Im pretty. That is not the problem..
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>>17207651
If you were, and you were decent add you said, men would be all over you.
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>>17207598
33 is old. Too old to be bringing drama like this into a relationship. You should've learned something about how to deal with people and not only think of yourself in this amount of time, but you haven't. Still childish. Not to mention that you're getting old for settling down with too. A man who wants a stable relationship would avoid you like the plague.
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>>17207647
Which behavior? I have no problem with betas. it is hard to find beta guys.
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>>17207658
With being a bitch. Why do you want a beta?
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>>17207657
Yes, you're right. It should not happen. I will fix it.
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>>17207661
Because they are polite, they are sweet, they can make me feel comfortable etc. It is hard to find beta in Brazil. Most of them are pussy and alpha.
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>>17207666
You literally sound mentally ill. Go to a shrink.
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>>17207678
should I be aggressive?
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>>17207676
Move to the US, or try online dating. But you really have to be hot to score.
Post pic
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>>17207684
No, be naturally healthy.
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>>17207685
I dont want live there. I rather to be near my family, friends etc. Are you interested? lol Im pretty, that is not the problem.
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>>17207693
Post pic
If you don't want publicly send an email.
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>>17207690
I will not be aggressive here. I even dont know you guys. I can take advantage of everything which was said here. I have no need to be aggressive. I appreciate that you guys spending time with me.
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>>17207700
lol
Should I?
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>>17207705
Do it, you have nothing to lose.
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>>17207713
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>>17207700
your email?
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>>17207719
Nope, I don't think this is you.
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>>17207726
do you wanna see me? lol
You know I love another man
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>>17207726
give me your email or social network
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>>17207725
[email protected]
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>>17207690
You are just trying to humiliate ppl. I will not feel offended by you.
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>>17207744
are you from?
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>>17207730
I know, but at least I can give you helpful advice.
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>>17207757
kik?
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>>17207757
help me right now. What should I do?
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>>17207768
Post pic
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>>17207776
why is appearence so important?
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>>17207776
he thinks Im pretty and he is not with me...
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>>17207784
>>17207781
This is why something fishy is around your appearance that I want to know.
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>>17207786
there is nothing fishy about me. He is ugly, but not for me because I like him.
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>>17207760
bisoncliff557
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>>17207748
Central America
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>>17207792
I guess he will come back. it is too soon, after a time he will forget and come back. I should wait for few months. He knows I'm good person.
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>>17207797
>>17207792
If you were pretty and worthy as you said, he would be all over you defending you from your ex.
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>>17207812
that's the problem! Im not rude with him. I never yelled at him. his friend tried to kiss me, I said no, I wont have anything with you you know I love him
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>>17207812
Im very polite, I'm not energic... I even be polite with ppl on street supermarket etc. ppl are so gentle with me and helpfull... especially men... so i dont have to be rude... I'm not rude with him... I didnt value myself when I was at his home cleaning things for him, tidying his mess etc.
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>>17207818
I know and I don't want to have anything with you. Still, he judged you as unworthy of fighting for.
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>>17207831
Yes. I can almost guarantee Im not worthy because Im good, kind. It's the same out of house, ppl are always being kind and it made me be kind as well
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>>17207836
Goodness and kindness are positive traits, people like those. If you were like this, you would be wife material. You are either crazy or way overvalue your own beauty. Post pic
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>>17207840
are you worry about beauty... Im sweet person it seems like weakness... When I was cleaning his house, probably he thought Im less because of it
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>>17207846
No he didn't. Men like that.
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>>17207840
that is not about appearence, He said many times im pretty he was a lucky guy. he has repeated that he doenst deserve... that Im sweet etc...
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>>17207853
he has said that he doesnt deserve me.. he is a lucky old guy bla bla bla
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>>17207852
he also asked me many times if I like him and why I like him
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>>17207853
Post pic and we can judge. Without that we can't give you meaningful advice, sorry.
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>>17207867
lol i said it is not abou my appearence.
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>>17207872
Then it's your crazy ex.
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>>17207349
lesson. Older guys know and respond appropriately when they see a red flag. Hovering crazy ex = red flag
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>>17207450
he's not a pussy only knows why put up with this shit when you need not. Plenty of uncomplicated pussy to choose from
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>>17207349
since you broke up with your ex how many times have you fucked him
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>>17207349
I know how this shit goes down. You are still in contact with your ex, he believes you two will get back together and you threw this unsuspecting man in front of the ex knowing the guy will be pissed off and attack the unsuspecting man. Wicked game you are playing OP.
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I don't think he's a pussy, as others have said, it just seems like to much trouble, baggage. Maybe after some time he'll come back around but I wouldn't wait for it.
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>>17207925
I couldnt see or meet or call him
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>>17207937
I guess my beloved thinks exactaly like you, and I cant blame him for it. But it is not the true! I really love my darling and I only want to be with him.
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>>17207970
Oh Gosh! I wish he will! Im so sorry for what happened to him. I love him and I wanna be with him. If I cant make him happy after these shits. I hope he will find someone really good that will make him happy, God bless him!
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>>17208000
so if you could see or meet to fuck or call your crazy X you would have? No wonder mr. 42 doesn't want to continue with you.
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>>17207925
he doesnt want me. he didnt call. He blocked from everywhere... then I blocked him... last week was last time i have spoken with him. but we broke up since one month ago.
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>>17208038
I wouldnt meet or have sex with him. I dont wanna. I want mr 42, I wont insist with him because i dont wanna make him unhappy. I'll wait some time and find someone new.
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>>17208038
I have tried, I apologized for something which is not my fault. I do not control my crazy ex acts. But probably my beloved doesnt like/love me. So he has no reason to talk with me. I have nothing to do...
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>>17208050
it may be wise next time to go silent so your crazy x doesn't do this shit again (he will). That is your real problem
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>>17208038
just the time will show me... maybe i will forget him, maybe i will stop willing him,
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>>17207424
You're actually making a bigger idiot out of yourself than the OP. Congrats.
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>>17208069
yes, you are right! I will be silent next time. The crazy ex got what he wanted, on the other hand I will never forgive him or be friend with him.
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>>17208078
why do you care? it is a kind of joke, it's normal here.
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>>17208069
You know how woman is... if i found someone new whom is givving me attention, being nice etc I will forget my ex easily. So this is not the end of the world,
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>>17208090
You're the joke
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>>17208130
you are the joke. dont you know ppl come here and be anon... they just wanna someone to be aggressive with because their life suucks
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>>17207349
Sounds like you really know how to single out quality men.
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