I don't know why this is happening.. but
I keep having dreams about cheating on my partner. Almost every night. It's not all sex dreams, most are just I'm spending time with a new girl and having a blast.
We moved in together three months ago and she's let herself go and I keep getting attention from girls. I was driving and some girls flagged me down only to tell me I was cute. Then I drove by some girl on campus and she rolled her hips and butt at me. Then girls keep contacting me on fb despite me clearly being in a relationship. I have a lot of temptation from girls that look good at the moment. It's driving me crazy. What do?
>>17205603
Maybe you aren't happy and your subconscious is trying to tell you through dreams that you're looking for more stuff.
>>17205603
Maybe spice things up with her or something?
I keep having dreams where people I know come to my home and beat me until I die
They mean nothing
Dreams are pointless. But if you're unhappy with your relationship and don't want to watch her turn into a 300 lbs tublord, then go ahead and bang someone better.
>>17205603
Considering >>17205644 isn't a bad idea but if you do be sure to talk it over with a professional.
What you are experiencing is actually a very common problem among married couples. I forget the specific term for it but a lot of women, after getting married or believing they have found a life mate who "loves them for who they really are" let themselves go leaving the partner feeling like they've...
>Been cheated or lied to; like everything prior ( the make-up, eating healthy and staying well groomed ) was part an act
>Confused as to the true identity of their wife or partner is. The person wasn't like this when being courted.
If you feel like one of the above set aside a meeting with a couple's therapist for just yourself and explain it the way you told it ( with a bit more detail ): "My partner has let herself go after I moved in with her. After that I began dreaming..."
You may also want to consider letting your partner know how you feel. If they are incapable of acknowledging your feelings or seem offended/disinterested by them you may want to consider a break-up. I wouldn't have an affair ( I've been "the other man" ) because it can often backfire on the individual that is cheating and make them feel much worse.
