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19/f here. I'm starting to think I was born with a wierdly small vagina. I haven't had sex a lot, but the few times I have it hurts, really badly, so much I hardly enjoy it. Last night I had a guy over I've been talking to for a couple months and we fucked, with a lot of foreplay beforehand, it still hurt, and he's got a very average sized dick. He liked how tight I am down there but it hurts like a bitch for me, any way to make this not happen? I'm sick of it
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You have yeast
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>>17171489
like a yeast infection? I highly doubt it. no weird smell or anything like that. it's always been like this
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>>17171484
more info required. what do you believe 'very average' is? because some dipshits are into porn and think 10 inches is average. plus, depending on geographical location, your average could be well above or below 2 inches when compared to someone else's 'average'.
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>>17171484

Did you use lube? If you've had bad experiences, it's possible you're kinda tense during it and it could be making it worse. Try different positions at least. If nothing works, go see a gynecologist, they can check you up to see if you're 'normal' down there and offer tips too.
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>>17171484
Do you have trouble getting wet? Have you considered consulting a certified medical practitioner instead of random people on the internet?
If you have a medical problem we won't be able to help you.
Otherwise relax and use lube.
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OP,

Small vagina?

Find a small penis.

Problem solved using simple logic.
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>>17171509
I mean I didn't whip out a ruler before riding him or anything but I consider like 4 to 5.5 inches to be about average

>>17171512
>Did you use lube?
yeah, but maybe not enough

>Try different positions at least
we did just about every common position aside from doggy

>go see a gynecologist,
>>17171520
>Have you considered consulting a certified medical practitioner instead of random people on the internet?
yes, but I have a hard time making time for doctor appointments and the wait list for my doc is at least a month and a half. figured I might as well ask

>Do you have trouble getting wet?
definitely not

>>17171521
I was hoping for something a bit more effecitve than that
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see if you can do him whilst he is flaccid
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You should go to a doctor senpai, maybe you have a minor müllerian malformation that made you have a small vagina or something. Or maybe an infection. How deep can you insert your fingers in your pussy. Anyways, a medical problem may not be answered by annymous people on an african-american image board.
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>>17171484
I know it may be less aesthetically pleasing, but you may be one of the few women who prefers small penises. If not, use toys to loosen yourself up, with lots of lube. It'll hurt at first but plenty of women have done it.
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>>17171550
you think that's average? are you an american or in an oriental country? i think i'd like to move to where you live. i'd like to be considered above average for once.
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Might be vaginismus. Talk to a gynecologist.
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>>17171499

you have a superyeast infection
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>>17171521
>>17171550

I was only half serious.

But there are guys out there that feel like they can't satisfy a girl because of their size, you could be their saving grace.
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>>17171555
I doubt it considering it takes a lot of work to get it in even when he's hard

>>17171556
>How deep can you insert your fingers in your pussy
I can put two fingers all the way in but it's still a bit uncomfortably tight

>>17171561
that might have to be it I guess

>>17171563
no, I just live in oregon

>>17171565
>vaginismus
just googled it, sounds like that might be it. Ill ask my gyno at the appt
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>>17171484
I couldn't even fit in my girlfriend for the first few months that we went out.

It ended up like this... while she definitely did have a naturally small vag, there were somethings that made it worse.

She tended to contract her vagina when she was getting turned on. Sometimes I would be fingering her and whisper to her whether she was getting tighter or looser so she'd know when she was doing it (it was nearly impossible for her to know on her own)

Also, I'd make her cum before trying to enter.. just google it. There's a thing in your vagina that has the texture of cooked rice. If you push on it rythmically you'll go insane.

I'd do that stuff and work up the amount of fingers..

We had sex 2-3 times but she'd still bleed. We broke up a bit after that because she had to move away.

The rest may come with time & practice.
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>>17171583

you have superyeast and it infects via eye contact so be wary OP
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>>17171484
post pic, how are we supposed to help if we can see it?
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Odd question: does it burn?

I ask because although most lubricants call themselves hypoallergenic, a small number of people DO react badly to them. You may need to forego lube, per se, and substitute even more foreplay instead.
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I am only slightly above average for my country (16cm, like 6.5 inch or something) but my ex GF told me it took her 4 month to take me without pain and im almost two month in with my GF now and she only slightly gets better.

Shit takes time and can be frustrating. but have sex often and stretch it on your own aswell and it will work at some point. remember, there are 5 foot girls that take 10 inch cocks. its just training.
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>>17171550
>I was hoping for something a bit more effecitve than that
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>even women with tiny vaginas where sex is agony are size queens

wow


also, just take it up the ass
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>>17171566
I read that as "supery east"

Good god I need some sleep
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>>17171999

No supery east is the cool part of asia

super yeast is different, in infects via eye contact and heavy breathing
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>>17172008

Jokes aside OP, go see your gyno, it sounds like vaginismus. My ex girlfriend had the same problem and there are ways to treat it, although it can also be caused by anxiety.
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>>17171565
this OP
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>>17171484
There is no such thing as a too-small vagina. You push babies through those things, remember.

There IS such a thing as an insufficiently aroused and underlubricated vagina.

Don't let a guy dive right in. Insist on lots of foreplay, followed by more foreplay and then some foreplay. Have him give you an O or two by hand or mouth before he even thinks about climbing aboard. If you're still not ready, use lube. And foreplay.
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It's most likely vaginismus like other anons have said. I've had plenty of sex with men ranging from 3"-7.5" and still can only fit one finger in without hurting myself. I've thought for years that it might be vaginismus. Go to a gynecologist when you can. I would, but can't be arsed. I just deal with the pain.

To other anons: sufficient lube and foreplay isn't always enough if the girl is sexually dysfunctional in some way.
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>>17171484

I suffer from same problem, i have no idea what its called in english though. But well its called myosis where i'm from. It's your muscles that can't relax. I've got chronic pain from it, it hurts everday and some days i can't do anything because of it. I have been going to treatments the past year but it hasn't helped and i am not allowed to have sex because it worsen it.
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Smoke some pot before sex

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