So, I recently found out that my S.O has received naked photos from someone on an art website. There is nothing serious going on. He gave her some site currency for an explicit picture that isn't on her profile. She never shows her face in the pictures and doesn't seem to want anyone who views her page to know who she is. I'm getting the impression that she does this all the time and it's strictly business.
Honestly, it doesn't seem to bother me because it looks like it was strictly for porn purposes. However, I can't help, but feel like I should.
I mean... I guess it's not cheating. It's just porn and he isn't sending her any pictures of himself. I'm not sure how to feel about this exactly.
>>17164311
Who is sending who the lewds? You lost me.
>>17164319
A girl on an art site sent my S.O. a nude pic for site currency.
>>17164351
He paid a girl for nudes when he has you for that? That's shady to me, regardless of how "professional" it was. Porn is free, and he should be coming to you with his urges anyway.
>>17164396
Right, it seems shady. But I'm not sure what I should do. A part of me is not bothered by it, but at the same time I guess what bothers me is that he had messaged her vs just getting a kick off of her art profile and being done with it.
On her end she just wants the site currency and apparently isn't against showing her "goods".
>>17164435
Why is he even looking at porn if he has you? Why would anyone pay for porn in the current year?
>>17164456
I see nothing wrong with looking at porn paid or not. Even though we have sites like xvideo, there are still porn sites that make you pay for the premium stuff.
If my S.O has a need and I'm not in the mood/not home then I'd rather him get his rocks off looking at some good porn material vs. having a side chick.
I just don't know how to feel regarding the fact that he exchanged messages with her for it. I saw the messages and it doesn't seem bad other than the fact that she called him "dear" when the purchase was finally made.
>>17164489
It's not "just porn" if you're exchanging words. Xvideos is just porn. This is not.
>>17164517
I guess that's why I'm feeling bad about it. The messages say just business... but the fact that messages were sent is what makes me feel weird.
I haven't told him that I know yet. I don't know how to bring about the subject.
Art my ass.
>>17164540
How'd you find out?
>>17164552
That's what I said. The site is an art site, but this user is breaking the TOS with some of the pictures.
>>17164573
In our computer room, I noticed he left his computer on while he slept in the master bedroom.
I went over to turn it off, thinking he was too tired and forgot to shut it down. I thought it was nothing out of the ordinary at first because he leaves his computer on from time to time to let his 3D artwork render. What threw me off is that he normally lets me know that he has his computer running for that reason so I won't shut it down for him and accidentally erase any progress. Rendering is a bitch.
I didn't see his program up and running. When I went to shut the computer down for him, I saw messages from users talking to him, but the one from the girl caught my attention since the message was simply titled "The Goods" followed by a preview of the message.
>>17164573
Looked at his phone or emails without his knowledge, obviously.
>>17164600
This is not "just looking at porn." This is getting nude images from a girl he's talking to who is not you. Shame on you for snooping, but shame on him for violating your trust. You need to talk to him about it.
>>17164583
you realize some escort sites block the face
>>17164662
It's not an escort site.
