I am really horned up /adv/. I feel like shit. I am 26 and I have never had sex. I feel so inept.
I am horny but no way to resolve it. Masturbation doesn't even fucking work anymore. I stop feeling physically horny but my brain is still horny after I masturbate. I often continue to watch porn even after I orgasm.
I hate how the male brain works sometimes. I glanced at a womans ass nearly 30 times today. I felt sickened with my self control after. I pride myself on IMPECCABLE self control but obviously women with big butts make my brain go crazy.
I don't like the idea of going to strip clubs or prostitutes because I fear someone seeing me and also I fear losing complete control of my mind and just gorging myself on prostitute bodies.
Help me /adv/. What can I even do? Being a sexless male is torture. I don't have the skill set to attract a female normally. I honestly don't know how regular dudes do it.
>>17162372
>IMPECCABLE self control
You should chill.
Glancing at female's boobs and butts is perfectly normal and everyone does it, including women. Unless you're staring, I guess. Get out more and stop having unrealistic expectations towards yourself.
>>17162391
I understand but I am just so frustrated that I can't do things with women to relieve myself.
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Go on antidepressants that'll sure fuck up your sex drive. Probably won't even be able to get it up anymore
>>17162372
Uhm.....
I dint know....
Maybe... just get a frigging whore?buddy
Remember when it was culturally expected to be a virgin until marriage? Calm down, stop looking to others for your self worth.
>>17162790
How do people even wait until marriage to have sex? Seems like a stupid idea? What if you get into the bed with your now wife and you have a micropenis? You just ruined her life. RIP.
>>17162861
>ruined her life
If she's a shallow bitch, then yeah
>>17162861
If you learn to give good head it doesn't matter. Head feels better anyway.
>>17163155
If you aren't sexually compatible, both your lives are ruined. The relationship will be dead before the honeymoon is over...
Sex before marriage is not a bad thing for this reason alone.
>>17163155
People have sexual needs. I'm not gonna spend the rest of my life with a guy can't even have sex with because eventually, I'm gonna fucking break. It's not that I don't care about personality, it's just that I'd end up so frustrated to the point where I couldn't take it anymore. It would be a doomed marriage.
If you were bound to a girl with no vag to the rest of your life, would it be shallow if you just couldn't take it anymore?
>>17163204
Yes it would be. Who is that guy going to marry? If every woman leaves him because of a microdick, who is left for him?
>>17163177
>>17163228
I don't know who would be left for him, but I'm not obligated to stay with this guy if I won't be happy in the long (short) run. It isn't my responsibility. I'm not gonna make myself miserable and be severely unsatisfied. That's what you call an uneven relationship.
Maybe there's someone out there like you who wouldn't leave him, but I'm not obligated to be that person.
>>17162372
You have a few options.
You can try to find someone to start a relationship with- which will lead to sex eventually.
Hire an escort- discretion is their business, and if you hire from a legitimate company they won't show up looking like a whore. I'd recommend a girlfriend experience and tell them about your situation.
Trust me when I say that sex is overrated.
Don't force it. Chill and find someone you can open up and enjoy it with. Not saying it's easy.
>>17163161
I dunno if it's just me, but I don't like head that much. It's soft and warm and I especially like the idea that a girl would care about me enough to stick her head in my junk, but I don't think I could cum from the head alone.
>>17163287
>severely unsatisfied
Because your dick in vagina need isn't being met? Can't he satisfy you in other ways? Of course you're not obligated to and of course it isn't your responsibility, but if you love a guy and then lose it because he has a small dick that just means you have the devotion of a 14 year old girl following a fad up until you find out it isn't as great as you thought at first
The only other times I have ever heard people mention the "but it isn't my responsibility..." was from people opting out of helping others
>>17163308
You haven't truly had your dick sucked then.
I feel bad for you friend.
>>17163328
Don't feel bad, I still had great blowjobs and a nice sex life all together.
I was more putting that up there to see if there are other anons like me.
