Dating a cam girl
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Would any of you guys date a cam girl? If no, why not?
I'm a cam girl and I feel like I'm missing out on a lot of nice guys because of it.
if you wanted a nice guy you should have chosen a different profession.
It's frowned upon
>>17154436
Post link to your cam.
>>17154436
Probably not, I'm into quite a few kinks with my gf but I can't stand the thought of sharing her.(In any form:visual, physical,ect)
>>17154436
uh, I would be happy as fuck to date a camgirl.
Im attractive, in shape, and have an enormous sex drive.
I would like nothing more than to have a cutie hanging out at my/her condo all day, whose not shy, wears nothing/next to nothing and who i can have saucy sex with all
i would date one been trying to start my own cam lol but chaturbate keeps rejectibg my driver liscence so cant earn coins .theres nothing wrong with cam girls body is natural art.
>>17154493
Spotted the beta cuck
What guy doesn't want some used up slut who strips on the internet for 50 year old indian men. I mean, the relationship is so much better when neither party has a speck of dignity and girl is being fantasized about by 2000 men a day.
>>17154498
explain to me how that's beta?
you want to date a waitress or a bartender who gets hit on all day and comes home moody and turned off, or a secretary that hates her life and sucks at sex, or do you want a hyper sexualized gf that orgasm all day so you know she takes care of herfself when shes horny instead of seeking out other guys, that'll drink your semen through your 9 inch cock every night for dessert, say thank you and ask for seconds.
>>17154524
You are one beta motherfucker. I can just imagine the mental gymnastics you go through to justify being cucked by Tyrone
>>17154436
date? probably not
work with? would definitely consider
i have no interest in dating a girl that everyone has seen naked/doing lewd things. but i would be open to doing cam shows together provided i was the only male she was working with and profits were divided amicably.
>>17154528
>>17154528
>not being a well hung white male who slays poontange, single, married, engage and divorced alike.
>not recognizing your God when you see him post on anony-moose image boards
i feel bad for you, kid
>>17154524
Just find a qt NEET gf and buy her an xbox and a collection of dildos. That way you aren't getting cucked every single day by a swarm of third world motherfuckers.
>>17154540
>being this much of a cuck
Enjoy beating off in the corner while all the women in your life get fucked silly by Tyrone kid
Yes you can find decent guys that will date you. Hell, porn stars have boyfriends.
>>17154546
>>17154545
>being this insecure
why live?
>>17154555
Hello cuck!
>>17154436
No because she a whore. I don't want to introduce some girl to my buddies and have one of the sperg ones be like 'Oh yeah - you're that bitch I like fapping to sometimes. I've got some of your tit pics downloaded on my laptop. Hey, anon, want to have a mmf with this chick?'
Yeah I'd feel like such a winner with someone like that.
>>17154580
>not taking pics of your girlfriends nakkiid glory and showing your m8s
why live?
>>17154587
Nigga you're the ultimate cuck but trying to play it off as an alpha. Nigga ur more beta than Bernie sanders. Nigga you so beta you're not being released for another three years
>>17154587
>cucking yourself with your own friends
>>17154436
Clearly no
>>17154436
>Have to go through life knowing somewhere out there, so freak basement beast is tracing her IP trying to find out where she lives so he can rape the shit out of her and murder her
>Go everywhere, knowing the more successful she is at her career, more dudes have fapped to her
I'd fuck a cam whore for money as long as my face was blurred out.
>>17154620
again with the insecurity
if you're worried your girlfriend with sleep with your friends, you're a faggot, will never understand that if your gf cheats, the best case scenario in that situation is if your best m8 does it, films it, and plays it at the ceremony on a projector screen as shes walking down the isle, because its better to put them to the test to find out if shes going to be 100% loyal to you if you plan on marrying her. you probably suck in bed, are a 2 chump pump with a small penis that will never be able to please a woman and if you ever managed to marry anything above a 3/10 shes going to cheat on you. Id feel bad for you if you wern't such a faggot. But i can tell all that just from your spastic, naive, virgin posting
>>17154436
>I feel like I'm missing out on a lot of nice guys because of it.
Topkek
As long as there are men breathing on this planet you aint missing out on any of them, there is an abundance of guys and most of em are "good"
Its not possible in any shape, way or form for a girl not to find an awesome guy...well maybe if she is morbidly obese but im guessing this isnt the case
>>17154681
My gf is plenty happy with all I have to offer, and so have my exs too. It has nothing to do with her cheating. It has everything to do with her being mine and noone else's. They don't even get to fantasize about her. Me and her also have an agreement to not watch porn or masturbate and only go to eachother for release. We fuck very frequently and I ensure she has an orgasm every time.
That fact that you don't hold yours on as tight a leash or care about her dignity will effect her respect for you over time. Women first and foremost want to feel like you are in control and they are just along for the ride. If you are allowing her to act like a slut, she will act like a slut and hate you every step of the way for not stopping her. Because women are impulsive and won't practice any self restraint unless the man they've submitted to is making them.
I'm in the minority but it wouldn't bother me. I'd help her with it if she wanted. If guys want to give my gf money to see her online, some of that money would flow to me. I'd be the one banging her and shit.
>>17154681
>not being a beta cuck means you're insecure
>>17154724
>she will act like a slut and hate you every step of the way for not stopping her
Or she will tell you to fuck off for trying to control her and get a new boyfriend within hours after she kicks you out
If its your place well she will just piss right the fuck off and sleep at her new bfs place that night
You might think you got control but rest assured, you cant control it because she plays a diffrent game than you do.
The moment she grows tired of you or has completed the mental gymnastics she needs she is going to dump you flat on your ass before you realize it.
>>17154724
But you'll never know if she stays with you out of choice and because you make her happy, or whether it's because you're essentially forcing her to. There may be a time when another guy comes along who doesn't hold her to such strict expectations who she falls for purely because he's not massively possessive.
I do agree with some of what you're saying...most women love to feel wanted and protected and to be told a guy isn't watching porn just so he can fuck you full force is a huge compliment. I just don't understand how it could work long term. It doesn't seem healthy to me.
>>17154796
>most women love to feel wanted
Explain why women constantly complain guys are checking them out/hitting on them/complimenting them then
Seems contradictory
>>17154436
I'm an electrician. I'm saving for my own house, have car and future is looking bright. In terms of looks I am solid 8/10. I'm fit and outgoing. I practice martial arts and sometimes I play boardgames with my friends. I'm family type guy.
the answert to your question is: nope. Not in a thousand lifetimes
>>17154724
>make sure she orgasms everytime
>not giving her rolling orgasm so her body shakes for 20 minutes after you stopped touching her
your wife/girlfriend will definitely cheat on you / leave you
>>17154815
>One guy out of billions wont
>Doesnt realize there are millions equal to or better than him looking for a girl
>>17154436
Definitely not. Your attention issues are a burden that nobody wants to deal with.
>nice guys
Explain.
>>17154833
I'm not talking about bilions. OP asked for my opinion and I gave her my opinion.
What else you do not understand?
>>17154764
>>17154796
It may sound like I am massively possessive, but I really am not. There are just certain things I find unacceptable and I will not tolerate even an ounce of it. She is encouraged to come to me when she has any issues and we are very close emotionally. I'm not saying full on abuse your gf and keep her locked in the house, but you can't be wishy washy on certain topics or you're just asking for trouble down the line. The key of course is keeping them fulfilled enough so that they don't want to mess around on you, but if she knows she can go and flirt with other guys ( which is about 70% of a camwhore's job), it could cause the relationship to slowly implode while you just stand there and watch.
>>17154840
Your opinion doesnt matter, is my reply to your opinion
You might think it does but it does not since its a game about numbers
Problem?
>>17154812
It isn't really contradictory, we're just talking about different things. You're referring to women being checked out/hit on/complimented by random guys. I was referring to women enjoying the feeling of being wanted by their long term partners.
>>17154812
They want to be wanted by the guy's they like. They don't like 99% of the guys that hit on them and they know it's only to get inside her vag. They want to be genuinely cared for and loved, but only from the guy they choose. It's a really difficult balance between being sweet and caring enough to win their heart, but strong and dominating enough to get her cream flowing.
>>17154852
you seem to have a problem with understanding basic concepts.
OP asked for a guy opinion. I gave her mine.
You seem to be the type that always follows the crowd. You base all your opinions at the assumptions what majority of people would say?
>>17154844
> it could cause the relationship to slowly implode while you just stand there and watch.
Sure, her being a cam girl might speed this process up but mate...girls are fickle
If she feels like it she will leave you for a new guy and it doesnt matter if you think otherwise or if you keep her satisfied because it will happen
You cant expect to control other people, basic principle of human relation
>>17154867
>You base all your opinions at the assumptions what majority of people would say?
ofc not, but i do know statistics
Youre an electrician, yes? if you do...lets say three faulty installations which cause a short-circuit in a year are you then a bad electrician?
I would argue that it would depend, if you only made three jobs and failed all three then yes, yes you are
This isnt likely to be the case however and im just pulling numbers out my ass here but lets say you do 3 000 jobs over a year then you failed in 0,1% of the cases
You are a failed job in this analogy, see my point?
>>17154863
>>17154853
Explains it, thank you
Thought you tried to bypass a basic rule of dating, women dont like most men
>>17154882
no I dont see your point.
Backing to OP problem. I can see how most guys would consider dating OP maybe making gf out of her. But sooner rather than later her cam career choices would start to bother them and they would drop her like a bad habit. Fuck and dump.
kek
Fuck no, what's wrong with you
>>17154892
>I can see how most guys would consider dating OP
Which was my point, if you dont want to do it there are many who do
It might bother them but if it stands between dating a cam girl and being alone im guessing many guys will choose to keep on dating her
And if he should choose to be alone instead she can replace him with a new guy almost instantly because there is an endless supply of guys and there is close to no competition
In short, there is a 95% chance OP can find a nice guy while still being a cam girl
>>17154916
but backing up even more OP asked
>Would any of you guys date a cam girl?
to which I replied you fucking retard. I'm not speaking about r9k fags. I'm speaking for myself and for myself only.
Comprende?
>>17154436
I dated a camwhore for 6 months (topless, "artistic" nudity, photo albums for subscribers).
She did it on the side for extra money (she made a good amount), she was pretty open with me about it an mentioned it on the 2nd or 3rd date, she also asked me to keep it quiet which I was happy to do.
Unfortunately we lived in a small city, it wasn't long before someone recognised her, then pretty soon more and more people started knowing who she was, and I was asked by a few people "you know what she does online... right?" and the inevitable "I've got nudes of your missus" comments came along.
The relationship broke down when she resigned from her full time job and started fingering herself online, I had no idea she was doing it until I was horny and she said "sorry I'm a bit sensitive from my cam show", that's when I learned that she was using a dildo, sucking on toys and other explicit stuff, she wanted to go full time, I wasn't too big on the idea, she made a lot of money but before I knew it guys who knew her were approaching me and showing me videos when I was in lifts at work and making comments like "I liked her show last night".
I don't know if you are fucking yourself with toys or what, but regardless of what level, there is a stigma which will scare off most guys with conservative values, depending on how far you take it you will scare off more and more guys.
>>17154882
Nigga you're retarded as shit
I had an internet fling with a camwhore and the fap material she provided was bar none the hottest shit I have ever blown a load to.
Just establish what you do to him, then tease him and provide any pictures he wants and fulfill any perverted fetish request he has and he will worship you like a sexual goddess.
Camwhoring is quite a turn-off for me, but it's not enough by itself to make me not want to date someone.
I'd date a camwhore if I like her in other aspects.
>>17154436
I'd hope so. If I can't find a decent job by next month, that's what I'll be doing.
No. I'm into women that are successful and have good mental health and job prospects.
>>17154436
I'm dating a camgirl. Personally I'm fine with it. Look but don't touch mentality. I'm the one she gets into bed with every night and the one that makes her feel safe
Pros:Sometimes I can get home and she's on CB and pulls me into frame and we can have fun, I'm into voyeurism and exhibition so don't mind, She'll get random requests from people to make videos, sometimes I have fun filming her, other times she gets request for videos, deepthroat, anal and a bunch of weirder stuff so my dicks happy, I beleive all girls have a desire for attention and I know when she needs attention rather than having to sneak off to try and seek it in a online or in person directly she can get hundreds of compliments a day from thirsty guys who'll pay just to get her snapchat or whateve. at least in my mind i think she's less likely to seek it elsewhere, plus on top of us fucking she's orgasming plenty of times so she's more satiated
Downsides: she's constantly filling my room with envelopes to sell panties, I don't like her using toys too much i think they desensitize her, I know she;s acting when it comes to talking to guys but still I feel it can cheapen things when you act to much because the lines between reality and acting in 'professional' life become too blurred. She keeps everything open and I can simply tell her to stop doing something if I'm not happy with it and she'll listen.
Frankly I'm not all that bothered if she's, talking to some online username and saying "oh damn you have such a BIG dick, etc" because it's just words to a username. it's all virtual.
it would only bother me to find out she's making plans to meet someone and do anything in person, even then I'd just want to dump her and wouldn't be that stressed about it because if she wanted to cheat she can cheat anyway it was something that was going to happen because she's that type of person.
