When I was younger my dad use to cut my finger and toe nails, shave me, trim my pubic hair, and pop pimples on my face and back. The pimple popping in particular could get incredibly painful sometimes to the point where sometimes I would be crying/begging him to stop. If I ever denied him, he would become incredibly angry with me and I genuinely think it would've escalated to physical violence if I didn't cave in. Would this be considered a form of sexual abuse? Even at a young age I had quite a few hang-ups about sex. I only started masturbating at the age of 18 and I still to this day have never masturbated to porn since I find even the thought of penetration uncomfortable and I have a rather prominent fear of being castrated. I feel like that might help explain some of it, but I don't want to wallow in self-pity or put my own problems on the actions of other people.
Did you want some advice about something or are you just working on your autobiography?
>Would this be considered a form of sexual abuse?
No but it is physical abuse
>>17152399
in american culture, this would be borderline sexual abuse with the pubic hair trimming. a parent cutting their toddler's fingernails i can understand. a parent popping pimples and shaving their teenager's pubic hair is just fucking weird.
>>Would this be considered a form of sexual abuse?
The "pubic hair trimming", absolutely yes. Jesus fuck, he has zero business being anywhere near that.
Physically abusive too, considering the "forced pimple pops." That shit leaves scars.
grooming your child in this manner is an obvious sign of mental disfunction, where it stemmed from, be it a sexual or emotional problem, could be anyone's guess. I would suggest getting a better diagnosis from a doctor, because self diagnosis is rarely helpful or healthy.
The shaving and pube stuff is weird. The pimple popping is fine though, ya shit hurts but thanks to both my parents getting that shit out of me and my brothers face while we were in highschool regularly our skin cleared super quickly. Compared to a ton of people I know and with absolutely no scaring. My girlfriend even still helps me out with blackheads. No idea why people say don't pop them .My brother mother father girlfriend and myself have no scars and the only people I know with scars are my cousins and friends who left them in a never touched them. Shit gross ass fuck to leave in your face famiglia. Even worse when you're talking to someone and they have a fat whitehead staring at you.
>>17152436
Plain abnormal behaviour. Thats abuse, definitely. The kids not the possession of the parents and the parents violating the private space the kid needs to have. This is high degradation of the kids bound to fuck up the psyche of the kid.
abuse
100% abuse
