Whenever I ask my gf about her attitude toward porn is like "I'm totally cool with it, I watch it myself teehee" but whenever she catches or even suspects me watching it goes APESHIT. She would start shouting stupid shit like "what makes them better than me? why do you like those whores more than me?".
I don't want to merely complain in a victimy tone. Looking for a way to wrap my head around this shit because it just makes me fucking angry.
Next time she does it, just calmly point out that she clearly has a problem with it and should admit this, rather than trying to appear super relaxed when she really isn't. Ask her why she feels so uncomfortable with and explain your reasons for watching it.
I can't stand it when women act all indifferent to porn when it actually pisses them off. It's like she's asking you to be honest with her, then conditioning you not to tell her things in future. She's actively influencing you to lie to her about really insignificant things.
>>17143556
She knows the cultural norm is to say she is cool with it but she really isn't.
She has trouble to deal with the fact that you are sexually aroused by other women.
Girls dont understand that tuys watch it because guys need visual help to get off. Girls can just imagine some 'hunk' of their dreams saying romantic shit and they get off...not us. We need to see titties and ass. It has nothing to do with them.
>>17143556
She's insecure. The rational side of her probably realizes that most guys watch porn and its a normal thing so she's trying to play it cool by saying shes okay with it.
Then when she actually sees it/suspects that its happening she feels insecure about how she is sexually with you, how she looks, etc.
The only solution is to actually sit down and have an adult discussion about it. Ask her what it is about you watching pornography that bothers her.
>>17143581
A lot of women need visual stimulation to get off, it's a huge misconception that they don't. Don't be so ignorant.
