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Testing the waters on my GF's possible bisexuality
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>GF saw some porn I was watching
>It was a MFF threesome
>She's intrigued but isn't into girls- She says that she wants to explore her interest in them but she isn't comfortable actually DOING anything with anyone yet for the same reason that you or I wouldn't be down with "experimenting" with a dude
>She claims to be straight but also admits that she's never even attempted to think of girls in that way before
>she went to Catholic school for her childhood so she never even really had the chance to explore her own sexuality, it took me forever to get her over her own guilt from masturbating which she still feels kind of uncomfortable over unelss I'm there
What would be the best way for me to test the waters for her attraction to women? I was thinking about watching some les porn together while getting down and dirty or chucking the o'l oculus rift on her head with one of those lesbian porn videos while I eat her out, is this a good way to go about it?

I want maximum chance of success with her being comfortable about it. I think she might be cool with it because of past experiences I've had with her but I'm not sure and neither is she
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>>17131051
I'm not gonna lie, if my boyfriend wanted to watch PORN to TURN HIMSELF ON while DOING STUFF WITH ME I would be so insecure and uncomfortable. It doesn't matter if your intent is to "see if she likes gurlz" (which is stupid as fuck, porn is the most unrealistic portrayal or sexuality, and should not be a medium to help somebody explore ever).
I would be especially uneasy if it were two girls too.. Just the idea of my boyfriend having it on around me and expecting me to like it.
I watch FFM porn, have kissed/done stuff with women... But that would make myself and most women very insecure
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Seems kind of weird way to explore that. Let her do it on her own, masturbate to lesbian porn or something.
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>>17131068
nonono
porn for her bruh
not for me
I don't need to watch porn to be attracted to my girl

>>17131120
>masturbate to lesbian porn or something.
that's what I was suggesting

She's kinky and down to try most things, but catholic school did a number on her. She's willing, but feels shame and all that fun stuff. We're extremely close and she knows she can tell me anything (including if she's uncomfortable) and she wants to be able to do all kinds of kinky stuff, but the shame creeps up for stuff like masturbating because it's been nailed into her so hard that masturbating is the worst, dirtiest thing ever and that only aberrant do it
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don't do this. you start screwing with the wiring in your girlfriends head and you may end up with a problem.
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>>17131203
How is seeing if someone's into something screwin with her head
I'm absolutely not pressuring her to do anything
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