I'm having trouble getting serious with this amazingly cute girl. She's very cute and I'm fairly below average at best. She keeps wanting something serious but I'm always worried that her friends/family will think she can do a lot better. Her ex-boyfriends have all been significantly better looking than me and pretty attractive. Like I said, I'm fairly ugly and kinda fat.
I know I should get /fit/ and I will, but what about in the meantime? What do?
Don't be so down on yourself. Not everything is looks. Plus, kinda fat guys are attractive to a lot of ladies. We like when you're cuddly.
>>17120555
shit anon just show her those trips
I think that satisfying her is more important than pleasing her family. If she's already interested in you then you shouldn't wait just so you can satisfy her family. You can work on your goal of getting /fit/ while simultaneously kissing the cutie.
OP Cont:
She's sort of a sorority girl or at least hangs with that crowd. I hate to stereotype, but they're the good looking bunch that always posts pictures of facebook. The guys they hang out with are way higher grade: They got six packs and I wouldn't take off my shirt at the beach/pool.
>>17120561
Maybe. I guess I'm just worried of being seen as the worst she's done.
>>17120568
The thing is I'd be absolutely terrible in their social circle.
>Hey Anon you wanna go to the beach?
Proceed to wear a shirt the whole time
>Anon, let's go hiking
Sweat and almost die during an easy hike
I really like this girl but I'm worried about "devaluing" her I guess.
So many self esteem issues ;___;
What makes her so amazing?
>>17120674
Personality mostly. We have a lot of fun together and can have hour-long conversations about nothing. She's also attractive which doesn't hurt.
I'd say go for it and see where it takes you. I'm pretty sure she likes you
>>17120728
I know she does. She's asked if I've wanted to take things seriously already. I just need help shaking off my doubts that she's too good for me.
How long have you guys been talking????
