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I hate that I'm not as charismatic as I'd like to be

I can articulate what ideas I want to say much better in writing than I can through speech, but in general I'm introverted and not particularly expressive, verbally. Or at least in the way I'd like.

Any suggestions or words of wisdom?
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The more you try to force it, the less charismatic you are. Be okay with your nature and don't try to change it too much except for actual virtue.

You don't have to talk a lot. In fact, people often think quieter people are the wisest given they don't say enough to fuck up.

Think about this and just be comfortable as yourself in public
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take a speech class.
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>introverted

Yeah more like you're a socially retarded fucking bitch amirite
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Charisma unfortunately has mostly innate roots. But there is such a thing as quiet charisma, it comes from appearing comfortable and confident in a setting and appearing to like the people around without having to necessarily say it. Having something grounded about you will draw people in and if you can find that, you can find your charisma.
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work in cabaret like in the anime watamote episode 6 or something, seriously talking I think it comes with practice
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