>>17107422
how crazy we talking, friend?

>>17107431

Long story short I have known this girl for a couple months. We have had sex and all that fun stuff, she says she has feelings for me. She wants to take it slow, me too, all seems normal. Weeks at a time with little to know contact, hangs with friends all the time, not a problem. Asks me to hang with her and her friends, I do from time to time. However I would much rather just get to know her, without having to get to know all of her friends at once. I tell her this, and she goes into this long rant about how shes not going to be controlled and just be with me 24/7. I'm just like wtf, where the hell did all this come from? Logic and all reason seem to escape her. Like she can't fathom that I just want to get to know her a little bit more before I get to know her friends. Calling me controlling and all this shit. I'm 26 and this girl is 22, so maybe shes just still retarded from youth or something. Idk. Phew, feels good to get it off my chest though

>>17107444
1. nice trips
2. work on your writing skills.
3. girls that young are all retarded or crazy
4. you cant take it slow after youve already fucked
5. either shes afraid to be alone with you for some reason or she just likes drama. either figure it out and deal with it or drop her.

>>17107444
Seems like you are the crazy one here though. Tell her you're not controlling but only introverted, and that it's not as easy for you to socialise and open up to people. If she gets it problem solved. If she doesn't, the relationship won't work out anyways.

Oh and don't listen to this faggot >>17107451
He's definitely not knowing what he's talking about and only giving shit advice.

>>17107456
I think his advice is alright.
Fuck you, buddy.

>>17107456
>early 20s female detected
face it, you all make terrible decisions and cant entertain yourselves without drama.

>>17107457
Fuck off samefag. And stop writing about yourself in third person faggot.

>>17107462
>doesnt know how to check for samefagging
cry more.

>>17107461
I'm a 30 year old mother of three kids in a 10 years ongoing marriage. I've analysed his situation and gave him actually pretty good advice unlike all of you little diaper wearing shithead faggots.

>>17107465
You know that I'm right, just as I'm right with my advice for OP little fucker. You turned red-faced didn't ya?

>>17107468
Tell me then Mighty Mother no.30

Should I just let this girl know I'm not some social butterfly?

She has stated she wants a guy to hang with her friends and have a good time. Which is fine, but I just want to get to know her a little bit better.

She's all over the place emotionally. Says she's is "falling in love" with me, however consistently offers nothing but distance. The gap has been closing, but with nothing but friends attached. And as you may mentioned It takes me a bit to open up to people.

I have been very patient with all this, but sometimes it gets really frustrating.

>>17107468
>tell her exactly what you told her before she freaked out, but say its because youre a little bitch who is afraid of social interaction
yeah im sure thatll work.
>>17107472
>i literally cant do math.
if theres only 3 people in this thread, you, me, and OP, why does the little number at the bottom right that says "posters" say there are 4 people who have made posts in this thread?

>>17107478
>only known her for a couple months
>Says she's is "falling in love"
theres your red flag

Now i'm not afraid of social interaction lol I just want to feel this girl out a bit more.

Having to deal with everyone else on top of that just gets old. Since I don't really care for any of them.

>>17107484
I know.

I know she's insane. I know she can't handle logical conversations, because whenever I confront her about her radical behavior in person. She just is at a loss for words and generally just closes the gap with physical contact.

Maybe this girl is just using me for a booty call and is caught up in some crazy feelings?

I should of left well enough alone...

>>17107478
I told you to tell her, can't you read? So just tell her. Explain that for you it is stress interacting with a group of people. Tell her that you can socialise but it takes a little bit of time for you to do so. Tell her it's OK for you when she hangs out with her friends. Tell her you like to hang out with her very much too and if she's OK with it you'd like to take the being friends with her friends thing slowly.

>>17107500
I have.

I'm not some sperg, who can't handle a situation.

She just generally does not respond and has not for a couple of hours now. Frustrating more than anything. More or less because I know all this has been a waste of time.

>>17107497
na, friend. you cant know for sure till youve already been with her for a little bit and fucked her. just get yours and get out before she gets her hooks into you (so, soon).

>>17107497
If you cannot have an adult conversation then just leave it be. But I'd just like you to know that your autism is just as much at fault as her craziness is. Just for future reference.

>>17107505
>I have.
Then just tell the whole story instead of wasting peoples time for heavens sake. You know your conclusion is right so leave that shit and never turn back. And stop whining like a little bitch about it. Go out and find the one that suits you.

>>17107510

Probably.

Sex was a mistake, always complicates things. I would much rather of gotten to know her more first.