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my girlfriend believes its the mans job to get an erection and put your penis in her while she lays there waiting and doing nothing and then do ALL the work in the missionary position until completion.

Is it just me, or is that extremely UNarousing? She'll get on top of me cowgirl, but i still do ALL the work.

I cant be the only one that finds this to be boring, right? That isnt Fun! Right? I fuck her good, and she loves it but its very one sided. Am i crazy for thinking this?!

What the fuck? Am i just a terrible partner for expecting her to do more? which in this case is even doing anything.

for reference in the /r9k/ thread
>>>/r9k/28285156
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Do you do ANY foreplay? Maybe she has just no idea what to do. Have you talked to her about it? Is she being annoyed by sex or more shy?

And no. Sex should def not be like that...
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>>17100991
we foreplay pretty hard, but its getting difficult because she doesnt like me touching her vagina, and she doesnt want me to lick her anymore. im sexually frustrated, and so is she, but shes had more sex experience than me. But i feel like she doesnt even know how to have sex, but she doesnt understand that my frustration with her is not completely unwarranted. Im just baffled that in her experience she knows nothing.
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Yes that boring, the average veiled Muslim is more sexually exciting than that. She isn't horny at all? she has no sexual fantasies? does she even get wet?
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>>17100975

eh. to be honest my last girlfriend was too active. my favorite thing to do is 'have my way' with a woman. i love being able to move to any part of her and do what i want but my ex was really fucking passionate and we were constantly jumping around flipping and itwas more frustrating to me than not.

as long as a girl is reactive / sensitive im happy. even if she just lays there. also shes goota sit on my face
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>>17100975
time to find a new girl, m8
trust me. i have experienced this, she will not change.
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>>17100999
This sounds more like your relationship is over... She doesn't want to have sex with you anymore. Sorry anon
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>>17101026
>>17101013
my female is horny as hell. she loves a good dicking, and i satisfy her without question. im not sure if she has any fantasies or desires other than getting my dick, which is fine. I just wish she would let me engage in my sex fun stuff.

and no, she doesnt sit on my face. she thinks its weird. i tried to explain it to her like this. "just imagine if you put in the amount of effort i put in to our sex. now imagine if i didnt do that, we wouldnt be having sex at all". she didnt quite get it.
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>>17101053

thats a bummer honestly i prefer eating out over fucking. soudns like there isnt much you can do if you've addressed the issue and shes just like 'lol no'.

i just wouldnt personally mind it if she moans and groans with the right moves,.
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>>17101048
she loves my sex, and im confident im the best dick shes had.
>>17101045
im afraid of that, she probably wont change, but she does try to ride me sometimes, but she stops shortly after she starts. "im tired. my knees hurt. i dont like this". its just one thing after another.
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>>17100975
If she were a pornstar or prostitute, she'd be homeless.
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>>17101053
I guess she wont give you a blowjob either. I would stop having sex, tell her she doesn't make any effort and it was boring (only when/if she asks), something will change.
I don't want to be all "redpill" but I've done the same and the girl went from "blowjobs are eww" to "I'll do anything".
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>>17101077
I didn't say you aren't satisfying her sexually. What i said is that she doesn't like having sex with you anymore vause she doesn't have feelings for you anymore. It's a chore to her
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>>17101165
its a chore to me. a chore requires work to be put forward. she gives no effort.
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Sex is a mutual thing. Without the mutual, you might as well masturbate. At least with masturbation you can start and finish and go at your own pace
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>>17101219
Are you dense? A chore as in "she doesn't want to do it". There's a fundamental problem in you relationship if she doesn't want to sleep with you. Either get to the root of the issue or quit
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Think of it this way OP.

If she isn't participating, you are just masturbating using her body.

Explain it to her in terms like that, see how she feels about it then.
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