>be a (technical) virgin*
>legit never done anything sexual with anyone ever
>legit a little scared of doing sexual things with others, in general, out of inexperience
>tfw actually really loose in the rear from playing with myself all the time
*I've never done anything with anyone else, but I play with myself a lot
I fear that my first time with an actual human being, it'll be terrible because my butt's already agape from the toys I use. Is that valid? Is that bad? I'm not a slut, I just love my own hands. But, y'know, all of my hands, like, the whole fist...?
>>17013634
Ew.
>>17013634
>I fear that my first time with an actual human being, it'll be terrible because my butt's already agape from the toys I use. Is that valid? Is that bad? I'm not a slut, I just love my own hands. But, y'know, all of my hands, like, the whole fist...?
What the fuck.
feels good man
Shut the fuck up, faggot.
My biggest question is honestly, are you male or female?
>>17013634
>>17013644
Whether or not that feels good, fisting is considered extreme (and destroys anal for the other person). Not really worth it when your ass is a wind sock.
>>17013651
Does it matter?
>>17013640
I'm bashful about sex, but that doesn't mean I can't have fun, does it?
>>17013651
Come on..
>>17013634
hay OP I cant say I'm at your level, but I can assure you the majority of how "loose" you feel will go away over time, frequently tense your butt maybe it tightens it slowly over time. Granted, having a high libido this might be difficult but give yourself a week if you can and youll see a change im sure. Just be happy you actually can have fun with yourself.
Your kinks and such are only part of your sexual character and really aren't a problem, its just a case of communicating and being cooperative with the other person you're with.
Any part of you can be good or bad, pushing you body to the extreme can and will leave your body a little loose, but remember some people will love this. Others enjoy fisting and toying each other, so please dont worry.
Hooking up randomly with others you just need to put forward any concerns you have, but I cant really give any advice on hooking up...
