>friends with a guy since high school
>we were both outcasts I was a weeb and he had the reputation for being "bad"
>would skip class, fight and just generally be really strong willed when it came to authority
>we were still pretty close
>grow up
>I'm still 2DPD garbage
>he's still rough around the edges and not on the up-and-up when it comes to social graces
>boxes now instead of fighting all the time
>never seen him show attraction to anyone
>could never really picture him in a relationship with anyone
>confessed to me out of the blue yesterday
>confused as fuck
I don't want this to destroy our friendship, but at the same time, I'm conflicted as hell.
>>17012868
If you can fuck him or be fucked by him pursue it.
If not tell him you are not gay tell him you are not gay.
if you have interest, then I'd say go for it. There is always risk in a relationship between friends. If things dont work out, most likely the friendship will end as at least 1 party won't be able to go back to just friends. At the same time, he obviously has feelings for you right now. If you turn him down, he may not be able to keep being just friends with you now that the feelings are so strong hes confessed.
If you like his as well, try it. If you dont have these feelings, tell him and it's up to him whether the friendship is salvageable.
>>17012893
I've always kind of avoided relationships irl and have been pretty bitter about it in the last. I just stick to porn and make myself not think about being attracted to real people.
A lot of people think I'm gay, though. But I'm pretty sure I'm not. But if I'm honest, it worries me sometimes that I self-insert as the girl in the porn I watch.
>>17012902
That's what I'm afraid of. I'll admit I'm kind of tired of being a hand-holdless virgin, but I don't think he'd just be up for screwing around.
I forgot to add that when he confessed to me that we were both drunk and wound up sleeping/cuddling in the same bed. I felt bad for it and kind of left him in a lurch. I told him I wasn't mad, just had to think.
>>17013113
>>17013113
The fact that I did this made me feel like I fucked up too. Like I gave him false hope somehow? Even though I'm not sure what I plan to do yet. It's like half of me wants it and the other half violently rejects it.
